this time of the month again grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
March 28, 2012 8:34pm CST
I am hating it today, it is this time of the month again that it is here again. It is such a pest sometimes, it gets to my brain, to my nerves, to my senses. I am cranky and feels like crying. Moody and all i want to do is just be in bed. Do i have to suffer just because of you always? grr. wish men are the ones who have this
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 Mar 12
i used to hate it to when i was young. now i wish i hadnt had to get rid of it over the cancer gene. after i got my historectomy things got really worse with my health because of lack of hormones and replacing them with synthetic hormones. so sorry for you though if you have a lot of pain. i only had that right at last when things went bad with it.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
There are synthetic hormones? i really do not know about these stuff..but it must have been harder for you, you going through your health problems..atleast my cramps are gone after a few days
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
i don't usually get cramps when i have my period just as long as i keep on exercising and stretching a few days before it comes. but whenever i have cramps... really bad cramps.... my boyfriend gets so worried and goes to a pharmacy or asks someone to buy me some pain killers hehehe but that's only when he is here. since he is in the states right now, all he could do is be with me on skype and try to keep me company. i don't feel cranky when i have my period, i just hate it when i have cramps. when my boyfriend and i argue, i would ask him, "do you have your period right now? because you are so cranky and grumpy". hahaha and it gets him mad even more i just love joking around with him
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
you sure do love him. anyways, my ob did advised me to do some exercising to minimize cramps.... just taht i get lazy
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
hahahaha there is no cure for that lol
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
yeah i do.... very much heheh you can do some exercises to minimize the cramps. what about your crankiness? did she advise something for you to do? hehehhe
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I also don't like it when it comes. I hate that uncomfortable feeling and the mood swings! And yes, I hate it more now when it comes coz it means that my husband and I didn't succeed in having a baby...
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
oh now that is sad ckyera..well then just time it this time, from the start of your period count 14 days then you are fertile again, then try to make at those fertile times
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
yes that's what we've been doing...anyway, another cycle is a new hope for us as well... hehe
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I don't like the mood changed, that gives me trouble most of the time, because people around us do not understand and ugh...we cannot go on explaining to everyone and say "hey, I am having my periods don't you understand"
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
hahhah i do agree, they do not understand until they learn we are having it
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
yes! those pains are really unbearable
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
it's even harder to smile especially when our tantrums really reached the highest level
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
29 Mar 12
Well when its that time of the month for me its not that bad. Yeah I get a bit cranker but normally I notice it before I do anything. Mostly I just want to have something chocolate and sleep for a few hours especially if I have cramps. But luckily right now I'm pregnant again so I don't have to deal with a period till after the baby is born some time during those 6 to 8 weeks or longer. I'm enjoying what months I don't have my periods right now while I can. Although I have other crazy hormones that I feel are worse then when I'm close to that time of the month.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Congratulations for having a baby! i could remember enjoying also those months without menstruation lol but then when my baby bump got toooo big it was also hard.
@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
4 Apr 12
I love the baby bump my first one was about the size of those personal watermelons. With this one I'm sure I'll be a little bit bigger since already at 16 weeks I'm half the size I was with my first pregnancy. I was never to big with my first even though I could see over my feet I never really looked pregnant still don't really look pregnant. People haven't commented yet. But it is nice to have a break although I don't like all those crazy different pregnancy discharges or the feel that I might pee myself any second of the day.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I know. Mine is coming soon and I am starting to get irritated easy.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
and cranky and even sore!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
ahahaha i agree, my husband sometimes don't as well...
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Yup! Absolutely! and my daughter and husband won't understand me.. :-(
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
29 Mar 12
Men aren't tough enough.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
sure they aren't. They won't last that long with dymenorrhea.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
29 Mar 12
even men like me hates the time of the month that you women really hate. it's not that i feel the pain, but the mood that affects me when my wife has it. you know what i mean?
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
hahaha yes i definitely know what you mean. My husband was even complaining about it last night lol. I was just in bed and not feel like talking and he complained why i wasn't talking and i said i am not up for it and he said it is that time of the month again.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
haha Neil I guess my husband can relate too!
• Pamplona, Spain
3 Apr 12
Hiya jazel, Us girls have all been there and suffered that. Well a few are lucky and don´t get to know much about it so it seems and that is what they say. Thing is I don´t know about that because mine was suffering all the time, headaches, tears the lot and feeling tired. One of my Friend´s has a Daughter and she asked her Mom how long does all this last for? Mom said oh till you are fifty odd lol Daughter said you have to be kidding that long? She was so disgusted at that time (grin). Hope you feel better now jazel.xxx
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I have these thoughts sometimes too- that men would have this, that they'd get pregnant..etc But it will never happen anyway.. You should just take pain relievers or drink something hot to ease the pain- it will go away in a few days anyway.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
i am one who really stay away from pain killers as much as possible as i do not want to be dependent on it.. i just drank something warm to ease the pain and put warm compress around my abdomen, it helped.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Yes, indeed! It is very painful when those days come in a month. Well, what can we do, we are girls and we are bound to suffer the circumstances! I wonder sometimes why is it that women have to suffer those things every month and then we are also the ones who suffer when it comes to giving birth. I just hope all men would think of those sufferings girls have and not just making love and then disappear when the girl they bumped already had the child in their wombs. Anyways, yes it feels like too much pain has been there inside of you that sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable and irritated with people around you as well. It's too bad that those pains we are going through we tend to turn all them to those people around us who didn't do anything to us. funny at times isn't it? but really, irritating...
• United States
29 Mar 12
Girl i know the feeling maybe one day some nice doctor will make a pill that will eliminate the need for a female to have to go through this every single month its torture.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
It is torture, sometimes the pain is unbearable, last night i had to have my husband really put something hot so it will subside..
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Same here huhuhu. Aside from the attitude, I feel pain on almost parts of the body, from the back down to hip. yes, its time of the month again. :-(
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
yeah we go through that, and it gets all over the body even