What happened to "Respect Your Elders?"

United States
March 29, 2012 1:20pm CST
It used to be that becoming an elderly person was a very important part of life and still is in many socities. It used to be that "Respect Your Elders" was actually followed and not just a sarcastic phrase used by adults. So why is it what we have lost all respect and consideration for elderly people in our society? It's possible that the increasing amount developments in technology and the accessibility nursing homes and retirement facilities has had some impact but i also think our values have just been changing. Although It may seem there is nothing we as teenagers can do to fix this problem (yes, it is important enough to fix), in reality we have alot of control over the situation. Once we start cleaning up our act and looking towards senior citizens as role models and wise people to listen to, generations after us will follow our lead. One of the biggest signs of disrespect toward the elderly, although it may not seem like one, is calling older people "cute". It just seems natural in this day and age to comment on a cute old lady with her knitting and her walker, but if you stop to think, it is rude and disrespectful. The older people in our lives are the ones who have lived the longest and have the most wisdom to share with us. We should'nt speak to them or about them as if they were young children just because they may be physically ot mentally less fit than we are. We have alot to learn from the elderly and if we just sit down with them and allow them to share their experiences with us, we are bound to be smarter because of it. We need to take care of them and treat them like the wise, important and valuable human beings that they are.
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5 responses
• United States
30 Mar 12
Some people just don't understand that you should respect your elders. They usually have knowledge and wisdom that young people don't have and they often know what's what when it comes to things. Although, if someone you know, especially an elder, did something that they shouldn't have and someone's life could be at risk, you do need to call them out on it. When my grandmother ran her car into the JoAnn's Fabric Store, I had to call her out on that one. She could have killed someone.
@Hazelme (647)
• United States
30 Mar 12
It's not only respect for elders, i understand that is important but i admit parents don't teach their kids the importance of having respect for elders. People who have respect for elders are because they were raised by parents teaching them to be respectful to them or else they would ask themselves "Why respect them"?. I think parents should start teaching their kids to respect elders that way when their kids become adults would be respectful to them.
@maezee (41985)
• United States
29 Mar 12
A lot of people don't know what the word "respect" means period. Of course I try to respect my elders, but just because people are older than you doesn't mean that they are always right or always deserve to be respected. My respect is generally earned, not just something that is automatic. But most people have it. Happy MyLotting!
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I guess the world is changing. I used to work with this old man but he really has this banged up attitude that no matter how much you want to respect the person, you can't find it to do that. See, no matter how much you wanna follow that belief, if the person you SHOULD have respect for isn't RESPECT-WORTHY, then it's no use. You'll probably end up doing something worse than what you could have done if you did not suppress anything in, and force yourself to respect the person.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Indeed because of the hard times and technological advancement that we lose our respect to the elders. We became so caught up keeping up with the changes in this world that we forget to look who was left behind. I do not use cute as a word to describe an older person knitting but I also do not find it disrespectful. But I do believe it differs in the kind of culture we are exposed to. As for the nursing homes, I do not think that it is their faults. I would most likely to blame the children because generally they choose the nursing homes and pay for it or older people opted to go to nursing homes because no one can take care of them. I do too hope that this will change and we would care more of the elders. After all, they were the ones who took care of us when we were little.