Do women look at men when they are on the street with their date ?

@vertu007 (683)
Romania
March 31, 2012 10:53am CST
We already know that we(men) look at other women when we're on a date and most of the ladies that hold our left or right hand with great passion have a problem with that. We also know what those looks usually target. The question is, do women look at men when they are on a date ?
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@pupupd (1515)
• India
1 Apr 12
Yeah, I do look at men but not when I am on a date. Well when I used to be on a date.. I had my entire attention on my love and no one else. Even when I was alone I used to watch men and compare them with my boyfriend and analyze how my love is better than them Now I am single and free to look at all the men around. But the problem is in my company where I work, we do not have many handsome hunks or dudes who are worth a watch. So we gals end up watching beautiful girls, not that we are ogling them, we just admire their overall style, nothing else
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
1 Apr 12
If your boss is a lady you should talk to her and make her hire more hunks as you call them :)
@pupupd (1515)
• India
1 Apr 12
lol we have already done that But she says there are other project managers who take in all the guys in their project as they need people who can do shift timings!! Gals do not opt to do shift timings at all, so all the gals or ladies hired are taken into our team!
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
2 Apr 12
Change that policy, make them come to you, fight for your right to stare at hunks :)
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
31 Mar 12
Yes, we do, it's human nature! lol But, I have also been known to point out a pretty woman, or well dressed woman to whom ever I was with at the time. I have never been the type to get 'jealous' just because he looks at another woman, that to me is just showing how insecure you are with yourself. There is nothing wrong with looking.....as long as it doesn't go any further! lol
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@pupupd (1515)
• India
1 Apr 12
I completely agree with you. I also used to point out pretty gal to my love, it is alright as long as you are just looking. There were times when he actually used to compare me with the gal I have pointed out and tell me how more beautiful I am than her So I actually used to enjoy those moments Now that I am single, I point out pretty gals to my guy friends, well they are a lot better at it than me of course..
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
1 Apr 12
I didn't say it's not natural or normal. It's just that there are a lot of debates about men that look at other women and very few about the other way around. I'm trying to make a point that it's ok for men and women to look as long as it's just looking.
31 Mar 12
Sure, it mostly depends on the country. In our countries, women are strictly warned to avoid these kinds things like shouldn't speak with a man or not to look at somebody else when walking in the street etc. Mostly, their life partners are pre-chosen when they were being on the child age itself. So, these mentally stressed women start to do all kinds of things when they given freedom like went out of home to continue with higher studies or when go for shopping with their friends etc.
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
1 Apr 12
I understand what you are saying but I was talking about the way things are in countries like yours or in different religions because I know they have some strict rules. I was wondering about the women who can do it in countries where habits or religion or social pressure doesn't make them keep their eyes of other women. But I appreciate your response.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
31 Mar 12
Yes if we are outside on the street or somewhere else we do look at men. We don't only look at them but also observe them. This means we see way more as just the fact if they are dressed well or are NOT shaved. We also see their behavior etc. And this is exactly what we do during a date. Bad table manners, badly dressed, food spots on clothes or face, too hairy, zipper not closed, dirty finger nails, etc etc we see it all in the first minutes. Better don't ask what most women sense as well!
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
1 Apr 12
I think is better to ask them :). Maybe that way we can get an idea about what's going on in their head. Even if it's just a little
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
31 Mar 12
Hi vertu, I have to keep it real....when I am out in public Iam not blind and will not pretend to be,,,Now I am truly respectful to my compamy but believe in giving credit where \credit is due... There are some really really attractive men out there being in pyhsical or how well they look in those nice dress pants or nice slide on shoes...it is what it is ...I said i look but you will not catch me staring....I may glance a few times but not STARE!!!!! there is a difference....
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
1 Apr 12
I agree. And the same goes for us guys. If i'm walking with my girlfriend on the street I think it would be a little disrespectful if I started drooling while looking for other girls.
1 Apr 12
Of course.They do.They look the men when they are with their date.Girls are addicted towards tall men who has a healthy figure.Wide chest,strong look makes the woman addicted.women looks more then men.Though many doesnt know it but look carefully then you will notice that how much they look other men.
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• United States
31 Mar 12
Well, some women do like to look at other men, and they do have wandering eyes. I have looked at other men, but none of them ever really compare to the man that I am with. I'm only loyal to one man and one man only. Sometimes, women just like to look because they like to look or they like to wonder about other possibilities.
@dknkyle (446)
• Singapore
31 Mar 12
I would say some women did look at men when they are with their partner on the street. One of my friend was with her girlfriend on the street in New York and her girlfriend looked and smiled at some guys that really attracts her and for that she got a slap from my friend right on the street in front of many crowd.
• India
31 Mar 12
I also look at them....lolzzz
• Philippines
3 Apr 12
Well, I don't directly look at men when I'm with him but I make sure the men look at me. Sometimes I do look at other men but I don't let my boyfriend see me. I also don't want to look at other men because I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm attracted to others.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
5 Apr 12
I think it is only natural to look. It's what you do that matters.
@tanadi (2)
• India
31 Mar 12
Yes. My girlfriend checks people all the time whenever she is out with me or the girls. At the end of the day people you don't know are still people you don't know and the one's you love are there and you love them for a reason.
31 Mar 12
Well, many women will not admit it, but yes, some women do. You just don't notice it because we can be sly about it. lol Yes i know this is a double standard,but some women still do it. And it can be for the same reasons as men do it- just to look. Sometimes the reason is- they are looking a replacement. But yes- women do look, they do notice and it takes a very observant man to catch a woman in the act. :)
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