Man should compromise with woman.iis it right?and why?

China
April 4, 2012 12:35am CST
I saw lovers last noon in the school building where i studied.The girl shouted to the boy and complain about the behaviour of his friends.She seemed to accuse somebody of teaching her woman has the resposibility of homework what man never need to do.The boy wanted to explain sth and calm down asking her to muffle her voice first.However the girl continue ,like murmur.About 10 minutes later,it is interesting that the boy enbraced the girl and likely said "Don't be angry,dear,im wrong........." and "submited" to the girl. I think there is a phenomenon that once lovers wrangle over sth,the man always say sorry to another ,whatever he is right or wrong.Some people will say that it prove the man love another.But i dont agree with it.I think all people has a principle .Morever,it doesn't stand for love that man always choose to compromise everytime. BY the way,im single man and don;t have any experiences abou it.What is your opion of that?Is it reasonable?And Why?
8 responses
@maezee (41997)
• United States
6 Apr 12
I think both sides have to agree to compromise. Sometimes the man gives up and caves in and sometimes the woman does. It doesn't necessarily have to go that way but that's what seems to happen for a 'successful' relationship I would imagine!
• Mexico
5 Apr 12
Hi qq: For me the answer is that in a couple relationship, both parts should assume compromises and the charges should be as equal as possible. It's not a competition about who gives more it's all about communication and understanding how these things work out. ALVARO
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
4 Apr 12
I agree that man should compromise with woman at first when they quarrel, unless the conflict is related to principle. In the daily life, the quarrel between man and woman may occur due to different reasons and factors. A quarrel which occurs in a certain environment may be avoided in another. According to the social rules, man is always expected to behave more actively than woman, so it should be the man who compromise at first. Such compromise could strengthen instead of damage the reputation of man. Of course the man should not compromise if the conflict is of principle, or such kind of quarrels will occur again and again in the future.
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
4 Apr 12
Compromise is a virtue not a thing to be despised. Whit that being said there are times when you can make compromises and times when you can't, won't or shouldn't It's not ok in a relationship to always apologies as a man regardless of the fact that you did or did not do something wrong. I'm in a relationship and there are times when I make compromises. I think that it's a small thing and it's really not worth fighting about. There are also times when I stand my ground no matter what. I'm kind of a stubborn guy and when I know I'm right and it's important I don't see the point of backing down. Some girls may want puppies instead of partners to push them around as they please. I'm not that kind of guy. I don't see the point in being in that kind of relationship. In my opinion the two partners should be on the same level in a relationship. Sharing everything, or almost everything including the power to know when they are wrong. Women tend to blame men for everything because after a while men get tired of all the fighting. In life people should do more of what's right than what's easy.
4 Apr 12
The important thing is a man or woman should trust each other and love each other and every thing follows. There might be a times that a man needs to compromise and there might be a time that a woman needs to compromise as well. Both parties needs that. Enjoying your time with your partner is the important thing. Talking and conversation needs from each other.
• United States
4 Apr 12
no one gets along all the time. the man shouldnt just compromise the woman should too.
@ChoukseyMK (1045)
• India
4 Apr 12
very interesting story. this is very common and natural phenomenon. man fears to lose his female companion. a female can get a male partner very easily compared to vice versa. therefore i believe that man always compromises with woman.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
4 Apr 12
It has always been my habit to my compromise with my wife, so as to end the story short or rather not to have a heated argument over something that could be settled later with cooler head, and when that time comes, i would explain my side in the most subtle way possible.