sometimes I think that life is not fair...

Sounds like things are pretty rough for you right now(??). I hope everything is okay. You definitely have to find the lessons in the bad experiences. We don't like when bad situations come about, but they DO come about. Everybody goes through them, they are a part of life. The least we can do is to gain some knowledge from them. Life is ALWAYS teaching us something. I learn something new every single day, sometimes they are easy lessons, sometimes they are HARD lessons. The most important thing though, is to LEARN from them. You have to be gentle with yourself, take it easy and do the best you can when it seems like things are not going the way that you want them to go. In the long run things usually work themselves out. You can also pray if you believe in it. Some people do not believe in prayer, but I know it works WONDERS for me. You can also privately journal about your experience, or start a blog about things when you feel up to it. There is always some young soul out there that can learn from something that you have gone through.

Facing life's challenges was never easy. We are struggling in many ways. We may stumble and fall, but we have to be strong and rise again. Always remember God may not give all the easy ways, but He gives all the ways we need to carry on.

Life is never fair. That's what makes it "life", you know? And personally I don't believe anyone's dreams can be SHATTERED. You can be set back in your goals to aspire your dreams, but I don't' think they can be shattered. You are just giving up too soon. If you don't succeed once, try, try again!

First of all: what makes you think life is fair or I should say: the same for all of us? If you believe that you are far of reality. Secondly: what happens to you, you can't help, but how you deal with it is in your own hands. Third: if you allow others or a situation to shatter your dream(s) it's your own decision. If you really want that dream to come true go for it and make it come true. Might be you have to change the road to it a bit, change your plans, it will take some longer but it's not said it won't happen. Your life, your future is in your hands. Sometimes we do believe we did find our dream but later on it turns out it wasn't at all. If you let go on your dream this means you don't find it worth fighting for.

I do cry and mourn for my loss. It is difficult to pretend that you are not in that situation or you are not affected. So I put all my emotions and when I had enough crying, I'll give myself the time to compose and pick up the pieces to restart my life again. I mean life is like that, we win some we lose some. It's always not about how many times we fall but the times we stand up every time we fall. You are not alone! I think that is what you should remember, oftentimes when we experience really awful things in life that we feel so alone, that no one understand the burden we feel and how heavy it is to carry. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! there are also people who shares the same burden you are feeling right now somewhere in this world, and that you have your family and friends if you want to call for their help. Hope everything will be ok in time. If your dreams shattered now, just create new ones. As long as we live, we can make it a reality.

Well its part of life and tends to P*ss you off quite some bit, but the way I look at it, It wasn't meant to be for some reason or other, If I thought that every time one of my goals or dreams didn't work out I would be quite insane by now :0) If it fails try again, and again, learn to take knocks and not get upset, its hard but in the end if you are determined enough it will work out in the end usually does :0)