What will you do if your friend cheats on you?
By Resy King
@resy21curapika (2151)
Pasay, Philippines
April 8, 2012 10:21pm CST
What will you do if your caught your friend cheating on you? Will you be mad on your friend or to your partner? Will you stop being a friend to him/her or will you forgive them despite of what? I just suddenly remembered Jerry Springer Show because of this =D. Let me know your thoughts or experiences.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Apr 12
if my friend deceive me frankly in the first moment I would be very offended and I abandoned it even more I told him not to rely on me.
but then I thought of why it received so I sought out a small part of the blame in me.
is still I would not forgive me if the cheats but I talk to him and to clarify the problem but will always be by my rule of thumb for me.
@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
9 Apr 12
You can't help but to put a blame on someone else... either your friend or your partner/ girlfriend or boyfriend. And yes, lesson learned; maybe forgiving and forgetting both of them will do then. But how about those who have treated their friend as sister or a brother? will forgetting helps?
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Apr 12
you are right it is.
sometimes things seemingly have nothing but when they pay more attention to see just how much they can hurt us.
a spoof and a lie svetta the life we were building collapsed suddenly, it's just life though it is not so pleasant.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
9 Apr 12
Seriously nothing much i can do if my friend cheat on me, he is just a friend not my spouse. No one ever say that friendship is a perfect union between two persons. The most i can do is severed our friendship and stop calling each other up in the future. I will treat it as a lesson in life and remember to choose my next friend carefully when he/she come along in the future. 
@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
2 May 12
Yeah that is true. Perhaps if they are just friends one of them as developed stronger feelings. I think that if that was the case with me I would just have to forget about it and move unless that person knew that I had feelings for him.
@resy21curapika (2151)
• Pasay, Philippines
4 May 12
Or check if one has a mutual feelings with the ther friend and try to settle it all up together. If things gets more complicated between friendship and relationship; then that's a bad sign and must move on without each other's presence.
Coomunication is also important; from the way I see it. I am stuck in this situation of what if's. This guy has a feelings on me and he's commited to my friend for 6 years and this is not just a friend because we have been working in the same company before.
I'm preparing myself on how to deal with this. Although I'm not interested in having a relationship with the man; I'm trying to protect my well being, reputation, friendship and such.
Thanks for letting me know your answers and happy mylotting about it.
