Who says First Love Never Dies!..my First Love is Dead long ago :p

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
April 13, 2012 5:10am CST
They say First Love Never Ever Dies (uhmnn) I don't know what makes them say so. The only thing I know is, memories remains. You might remember the person and happy/sad moments- but the feeling? Oh- you think the feeling also remains the same? -I doubt! Or maybe, it depends upon the situation and how that person made a special place in your heart. (I don't understand either) But,I knew in my heart "ART" is my First Love. Yes, and until now I still Love ART so much. ART- the conscious use of skill and creative imagination especially in the production of aesthetic objects So,do you think First Love Never Ever Dies? It's Friday the 13th...do you have a date? Wishing everyone a great weekend ahead jaiho®- strike back (^_*) 4-13-2012 6:10pm Friday PT
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
13 Apr 12
Hi Jai! If you are concentrating the discussion on our hobbies as our first love, then the answer would be different and if you are talking about a person then it will be a different ball game. I think if you were in love with a person and s/he is no more in your life, you would gradually forget him/her one day. Memories also fade with the passage of time, when we get busy in other business. I feel that if we love any of our hobbies and we enjoy doing it, we could never forget or forgo the same. Supposedly, if I love 'reading', I would love to read anything, anywhere and anytime, provided I have nothing else to do and some reading material is available. It sounds good to hear that you love 'art' and your creative skills and you continue to enjoy the same. No, I don't have a date on this Friday. Wish you a happy weekend ahead. dpk
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Apr 12
It means that you have already given appointments till 31 Dec.. 2012?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
17 Apr 12
It means that you have already given appointments till 31 Dec.. 2012?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
set a date with me? check next year's calendar and book in advanced
• Calgary, Alberta
14 Apr 12
I already forgot about my first love, though I still think about my previous love. well she is my 4th love.... should I post a link of the song Natalie again? LOL cos that song is my theme for her. I do love my current girlfriend but I hate the fact she is bullying other girls in the office because she suddenly turned into the queen bee cheerleader of a mean girls club. My first love is just a puppy love, you know I was 13 years old and innocent when we met. Its a shame that it took me 2 hours to remember her name.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
hello Capt, Fourth love and other love (hehehe) But I amazed to know that you have a "themesong". I am a certified music addict but I do not have any themesong with my ex. Although my kids are bullying me it's "Separate Lives" lols. 13 years, not bad. My son also had his first love when he is 13 and until now he can't moved one, it's been 3 years since the girl went home to their hometown. Well, at least you still remember her name- after 2 hours (hahaha)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
was her name Natalie
• Calgary, Alberta
14 Apr 12
This is my themesong for my 4th ex: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m3QJ_yWApj8 that song is perfect while inside the car. My current girlfriend asks me if this song have relevance to me..... I said no,,,I lied, I dont know why I have no theme for my first love. we broke up for a very small issue but we know kids cant really have a super serious relationship and brokes up for silly reasons, but that hurts like its the end of the world. Simple plan's perfect is my theme to my parents.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
So you're saying that your love for art is still there...and that is your first love...It didn't die! you're wrong for your title! Anyways, yeah, it's easy to let go of a person you loved most when you know you have developed feelings for another person who is worth of your love, isn't it? The happiness you both shared,the laughters and tears with that person you first loved can just be memories worth keeping and that your relationship with them is a thing that helped you move on and make decisions to live separately with them. Like they say, if there is pain, there is still love. But if you are not aching anymore,you don't love them anymore. But I guess there's still care if you ever see them again.Just like that. Nothing more. Unless you let yourself be loved by them again... Friday the thirteenth...they say it's creepy and people have to stay at home isn't it?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
So you're saying that your love for art is still there...and that is your first love...It didn't die! you're wrong for your title! sorry- but you are now aware of my topics I use to post titles that confuses the reader/s thanks for your response and have a great week
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
Exactly...trick from SEO
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
okay, yes, it seems confusing sometimes when the title is different from its contents. Anyways, It's good to have catchy titles cause it does attract other users to participate more. Nice one! See you around!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
Haha,I thought ART is the name of your first love my dear jai,lol! Well,as to my experience,it does die,honestly! Now I believe in the saying that it takes another man to forget the other man. But of course it still depends in your new relationship,how it works. With mine,I know you know that I'm happy with the kind of love and life that my hubby is giving me and I'm so thankful for it! Take care my dear jai! I have no date,lol!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
hello cutie, Oh well, another confusion again Yes, it all depends on how the next person treated or how deep is the love he/she show and give. Not all first love leaves sweet memories :x You are lucky to have found the true love of your life my dear Bhaby texted me but that was late, and I said we'll have it set on the next Friday the 13th (hehehee) Have a great day always, kiss and hug cutie for me (^_^)
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• Philippines
17 Apr 12
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• India
13 Apr 12
Well, I don't have such relations. I believe that friendship is more deep and best than love relations. Friends helps us to go deep which gives us good memories. Where as love is just an act, like the one which actors does.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
hello wonderboy, like the one which actors does? hmnn...so it's just like re-enactment?
• India
13 Apr 12
Hey jai, every one including you!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
me? but I don't love anyone (aside from my family and friends) and I am not a good actress- I don't know how to pretend
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Well, there is a misconception on this cliche. First love doesn't only refer to your very first boyfriend. I'm sure 98% of first time relationships are out of infatuation and not love. Perhaps, one doesn't even fall truly in love until they meet the one they say "I do" to. In my case, Id say my first love is my fifth boyfriend, who now is my husband. And, i can say, yes, it will never die. I only loved one person this way and I dont think I'll ever feel the same way for another man.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
hello jureathome, It's really hard to define the meaning of love. Love has a lot of definition depending on how/what the person feels. So, not all meaning or definition matches everyone. Yes, we do fall in love - no matter how many times we do fall in love- and there is always a difference each time we fall in love with different person. The intensity, the connection is not the same with each person. Thanks and have a good day
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
14 Apr 12
hi jai, i had an intense love affair with a girl when i was in my early twenties over 40 years ago. It was my first and last love and lasted for 2 years.Till then i never looked a girl in the face because i was shy but she bowled me over, as a matter of fact she seduced me. After we broke up her family got her married and all my love and interest sank like the Titanic,without a trace.Since then no girl has ever had the impact she had and thankful to God that i never lost my heart to anyother girl after her and i have no regrets either.Hugs.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
dear anna, Wow, so you only love one girl in your life - she's so lucky. Are there any more guys out there with a heart like yours ? hmnnn... :p Well, I don't have any regrets losing the one I love too. because I believed, he is not my lose, but he lost me have a great weekend my dear anna
@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Apr 12
Hi didi.... I dont know but can say that my fiance is my love now and it will never die although it is not the first one. huh.... I have no reason why we should not date on 13th. If it would be possible then i wish to stay with her. hik hik hik. Have a nice time.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
shiby, And who's stopping you to date her today? Go and make the most romantic date ever
• Mexico
15 Apr 12
Hi jaiho: Of course, love as other human feelings die. So I agree with you on this statement but they also say that you never forget your first love and I agree with this last statement. Have a nice day. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
hello Alvaro, I agree that we can never forget the person, whether it is first love or not, especially if that person give us so many things or sweet memories worth remembering for. But, the feelings will surely fades once someone fills the love that once lost. Thanks again my friend and have a great day always
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
14 Apr 12
Well, art is your first love, and now you still love art, i don't doubt about it...:) But How about your first love (love between man and woman)? My first love (with a man) is gone long time already and right now i don't have much memories of it. Well, i intended to date my friend on Friday, the 13th, but it is not success, he is busy, poor me...
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@shrmanoj (382)
13 Apr 12
Sometimes, it happens to someone and not to worry about it. There is in the corner of the world to everyone in this world. The god has made a couple to everyone.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
hello shrmanoj, I also believe that everyone has their own destiny- if they only believe. Thanks and have a great weekend