Paucity : Every father's nightmare
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
April 14, 2012 3:30am CST
Scarcity or Paucity come to every man's life unexpectedly. There are even people couldn't hardly believe their very rich neighbor unexpectedly goes down from riches to rug. It would be an inspiring to each and everyone of us to hear someone goes up from rugs to riches rather than from the top to the bottom.
I've been in this nightmare for a long period of time that I couldn't hardly believe I survived. Unfamiliar with this status of life I was caught like a sitting duck of scarcity. How I did survive, I could not recall it anymore how did I manage my life.
I could not say am successfully survive because life is like a wheel. As long as you are still alive the wheel is still running. The best way that you can do to survive it to maintain where you are in the part of the wheel that you're comfortable.
My most unforgettable moment of my surviving days before was when I had to think yet of what we are going to eat on our next meal. While I was looking to look for that meal my tears uncontrollably run through my cheeks. Life survival could never been so easy. This is most horrible nightmare of every head of the families. You wanted to wake up to escape but you just can't but to face the reality. I realized then that this is one of the reasons why people got suicide...because of Paucity..
Lucky are those who never experience this but how sweet to think for those who survive it.
Do you have paucity experience you can share to us? Share it my friends.
Mobhomeir here
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
dear Martin,
You are not alone in such misery , no, not misery- trial/s.
I am not the head of the family- but the supposedly head of the family vanish like a nightmare.
He left us without any warning.
I was caught in the middle of confusion and shocked.
I don't have work by that time, I totally relied from him as the provider.
The only best thing is, we're not in any debt ( I was never attracted by credit cards)
I have 3 kids to support- and as you know here in our country, applying for a job for over-age like me is like looking a needle in grassy ground.
Thanks for all my friends, most of all my family who never fails to support me.
I get myself a job in a call center and that really helps me a lot.
How did I manage until now, it's God's grace.
It's been 4 years now that I play dual role for my kids- I've learned a lot.
Survival is a game I enjoyed playing.
It helps me to know who I am and what I can do more in this life.
Opss..I've been carried away 
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
High five on that my bonita. Yes, I knew a little from you before that's why you have my sympathy. I understand we both a victims of this life's category that we never know yet if we can fully survive.
A blessing in disguise this thing happened to us because this is great teacher teaching us how to be humble, to be patience and to be spiritually matured. By getting used to it could make us more stronger and would never be afraid of more life's challenges (at least).
Good luck for both of us my dear bonita mia..
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Yah, sometimes I tell myself
is there any more trial/s that I can't bear to handle.
I believed God is preparing me for the worst.
HE will never give us task we can never handle- or,in any moment HE sees us having hard time- HE will then carry the cross. :)
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Agree with that bonita...there's a good biblical logic that I would never forget ..."..there's no righteous son to his father being neglected from all what he wishes to have.." " and righteous father would give snake to his righteous son who ask for bread.." "..birds in the sky never sow any seeds never reap as well but God feeds them, how much more we as His children.." but, we will just find that blessing from our honest source of living and any form of legal means to survive as God's manifestation..
God Bless us Bonita..
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@thuglove1722 (343)
• United States
15 Apr 12
i don't understand how people can go from riches to rags, im not where near rich and have always been on the bottom but slowly scarching my way to the top
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
That's cool man!! Yes we must have to go upward to achieve what we wanted in our lives...keep it up..thanks for responding..
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@cyndidaki2871 (83)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Life's uncertainties are an imminent fact that one has to hurdle.Every human being has realistically experienced it but then it depends on the person on how he copes with the situation whether he would strive hard to sustain life to the fullest.Yes it is true that it's a hard feeling that you won't have something to eat or have something to wear because you don't have the resources a penny to buy one,questions would be raising our minds why is that so?,why there is no equality among people. I'ts not only a fathers headache but to all the rest who are considered to be head of their families.Nevertheless if we struggle or devote more serious effort for something that we wanted for ones survivability it would no longer be impossible for that so called scarcity to dwell in our lives since life is like a wheel right so don't know what tomorrow can bring us.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
I agree with that my friend. If we open our minds for spiritual analysis, God shower all of His blessings fairly to all people as well as he send rain to each and everyone. We were given a freedom to choose how do we gonna find it - illegal or legal means - He even give a bonus; He suggested to do it in a righteous way so He would be glad. Striving hard via legal means plus the patience would put us on the right track of our lives.
Thanks for an inspiring respond..
Mobhomeir here
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