What happened to being responsible for your own children?

@beeeckie (802)
United States
April 15, 2012 9:56am CST
At a show I worked at last night, one of the other usher's niece and nephews were there with their mother (who was not really visible compared to the kids). They used their aunt's position there as an excuse to run wild. As in, quote: "My aunt works here, it's okay to run!" One of the boys actually said this. Now, their aunt being there should be all the more reason for the children to act like mature individuals, to reflect on her! The mother was actively irresponsible and not concerned about the kids - i.e. we're in a public place, everyone else can watch them. Their aunt, my fellow usher, wasn't impressing me much either. She kept asking me if I saw them, but hey, I was busy with patrons trying to seat them! It isn't my responsibility to focus on one person's children. I was polite and civil, but I was definitely not going out of my way to be a babysitter. If your kids are having a "moment", bring them outside, give them a chance to regroup and behave. Behavior issues so often seem to be the parent...
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@msmamaof3 (244)
• United States
15 Apr 12
I completely agree. Many parents are so busy doing what 'they' want to do that they assume they can just let their children run wild. If people took more time to be parents and actually play with their children the world would be a better place.
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@beeeckie (802)
• United States
15 Apr 12
Exactly. Just because it's a kid-friendly show or venue (like a toy store for example) doesn't mean you get to let the kids run like crazy! Personally I worry for the kids' safety. When I was 17 I worked in a toy store and after a woman had left her kids to play in the store while she shopped elsewhere THREE times, I told her I'd have to call the police for abandonment. She didn't do it again, at least not with me. For the record, I have no kids yet, but it boggles my mind that I feel more maternal sometimes than it seems the people around me do.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
There are times, parents role is to discipline the children of their own. But then, children are naturally playful, we tend to control it but to no avail. As they grow older, the children can distinguish the manner of being behave in a certain place.