in doubt of my cousin's boyfriend

Is your cousin and her bf communicating very well or they don't have time for each other anymore? Are the pictures you found on his fb account all alone with that girl or are they with a group of people? Are there a lot of changes that happened with their relationship when the guy went abroad? Long distance relationship is really hard. You are away from home, from your family and friends. You tend to look for what is missing with someone, could be a new friend or a new hobby. The people left behind will become paranoid about what the person abroad is doing. Or vice versa. Your cousin and his bf should first talk and both of them should be in a good temperament cause nothing good will happen if both or if one of them is in a bad mood. They should talk if he already found someone else there or if they should continue their relationship, etc. Communication is always the best remedy for cases like this and not anger or even violence or any kind of things that will hurt them both. Another thing is, adding your ex doesn't mean cheating. Of course, that may hurt the other party but getting friends with the person you had a relationship with isn't bad. It just means that you guys finally moved on from the past and you have already accepted what happened before. Talk to your cousin. Ask her the stuff I asked you now so she can weigh things and come up with a proper solution :). Hope everything will be fine between the two of them.

that's really hard. my boyfriend is also in the states and it's really hard being away from him. i see some pictures of him and some girl friends but i never get jealous. i ask him about all these things and i want him to be honest. i trust him, i really do and we have been together for almost 8 years now. i tell him whatever i want to say and however i feel so that way he is also aware. i hope everything goes well with your cousin and her boyfriend and that they can work things out. i hope the boyfriend doesn't do anything stupid, i'll be so mad at him too if he does.

i think the two should talk and you and your cousin should not conclude yet. i understand that you love your cousin but seven years is seven years so they must talk to clear things out.

You should judge and trust a person in the way he/she behaves to you. Or do you have an affair with him as well? It's up to your cousin how to act. If she doesn't like his behaviour she can tell this to him herself. If he won't or can't change she has to decide what to do next. 7 years is a long time, it's normal to have doubts after 5-7 years, it happens in ever relationship, it's also normal to start a life of your own if you live alone (again). And if it comes to falling in love: yes he might fall in love with an other girl but this might happen to your cousin as well. Since we can't help falling in love.

I think the boyfriend's cheating on her. It's pretty clear. Maybe he is just having fun but this is a recipe for a break-up. He is really away from your cousin and there are a lot of temptations when you are away from your girlfriend. He may be a nice guy but he can change. He is still a guy and there are a lot of pretty women there. He also got in touch back with her ex-girlfriend. They also had history and anything can happen. They might reunite and recapture their love for one another.

There is a possibility that he can cheat to your cousin. You can tell your cousin to ask him what's going on and tell him what she feel about him adding his ex girlfriend.

i think the proof is right in the pudding. so far, he has been caught in compromising positions with two girls. one is his ex girlfriend, who happens to be overseas with her. i think he is primed to cheat. long distance relationships are already hard enough. you have to have a great deal of trust. if he if pulling this kind of stuff, though, i don't think he is ready for anyone's marriage material. he is too busy looking backwards, forwards, sideways. you cousin could be primed to getting hurt. unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about it. it is her decision what she wants to do with the situation. if she does decide to stick it out and see how it all turns out, just be there for her no matter what. no i told you so's.

Why is he displaying his picture and other women on the Facebook if he really care for his girlfriend. This is a way of showing your cousin that he does not care about her feelings anymore. No woman will feel good to see his man parting abroad with other women. Le

Yeah, right! Why have to put a pictures with another girl? Especially, if they looked like sweet in that pictures. That's so lame! If I am the girlfriend, I would feel "jelly", insecure, hurt, worry, and whatsoever. I will demand an explanation! And if he really cheated on me, then goodbye! SAYONARA! It happened also with my friend, her ex also said it was nothing, just having fun..blah2x. But, in truth, he really cheated on her. PASTILAN! She cried and cried but decided to broke up with him coz he was not worth it. Even though, it was so painful at first. But, right now, she already o-ver him. She has now a new nice boyfriend. But, in near-distance relationship this time.

you should convince your cousin to think about those pictures in the facebook. those are the real evidences. maybe your cousin has been cheated on for the 7 years that they have been together yet she doesnt know. you should let your cousin be aware of what her boyfriend is doing so as to clarify things between them, especially those pictures of him with the girl. i believe it was not just a simple having fun.