What can you advice me about finding a special someone?
@LaurenPogisky (131)
April 25, 2012 12:32pm CST
I am admittedly a single person, no relationships, no strings attached. I have been this horribly single for a long time! I just want things to change now that I am already advancing in age. I want to experience how to love and beg loved by a special mate. Should I search for that person now or just keep waiting for her to come? What can you say guys? Thanks in advance.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
Maybe you are choosy when it comes to finding someone.
If you are not choosy, then maybe the right one is yet to come along.
Go out with friends and meet new friends too.
Try to socialize sometimes and attend gathering or events held by friends.
You will never know when the right person or where it happens.
Just wait and it will come :)
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
yes i agree to jaiho.
Love is not really choosing.don't find love.let love find you.
Don't be to choosy as jaiho said because if your attitude is like that you can able to have you hate attitude that you don't like in your life.So don't be that kind of attitude.
@honest_efforts100 (1607)
• India
16 Oct 12
Finding a lifetime partner is not an easy one; there is no tried-and-true formula and it is not something to be achieve. Try to change your appearance by changing you clothes styles. Tell your friends that you need a partner and love to be introduced to someone that is interested also. Try internet dating, accept invitation for dating games.
@Amit1975 (175)
• India
25 Apr 12
Hello my friend,
I am also a single person.I am also progressing into an old age.I also want someone special in my life.I am a romantic person.I am searching for someone special.I suggest you,don't wait for that special day.Try to start searching right now for your special person.I hope,you will get someone in your life soon.
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
It is not about finding, it is about waiting. Just keep socializing and meeting different kind of people and who know you might stumble on someone you've always been waiting for. Finding a special someone can mislead you and sometimes can get you in trouble. Believe me, I have seen many experiences. When you are finding you have this mentality that might lead you to false expectations like this might be the woman or the man I've been looking for but in a long run you just made a mistake and end up blaming you self because you are making it too fast and sometime it will come to the point wherein you will be one initiating without knowing because you are blinded by your belief. So be patient, learn how to wait, don't lose hope, and be open to other people.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
so you're a man since you mentioned "just keep waiting for her to come" in your discussion. well, if i were you, i would not wait for her to come. let her come to you with your effort to attract or make people like you. make a move, go out, smile to people, and ask people out. get to know them. make yourself attractive by engaging in worthy activities such as sports or charity or volunteering works. go and get a partner.
