Why Mylotters have no trust in their fellow mylotters?

@sirnose (2436)
United States
April 28, 2012 3:34pm CST
Most mylotters will join known websites that have been proven to be scam sites. But will not trust their fellow mylotters, like when you are looking for referrals or trying to network with others to increase your online earnings. What I learn is that some mylotters don’t understand the concept of value for value and that there is no such thing as a free lunch. Most think that they can get referrals or valuable information without any incentive or effort on their part. I recently had a mylotter contact me from a discussion they started 2 years ago, asking me for information I said I would galdly give if they rated my response. They responded back that they would do that but, they never did keep their end of the agreement. Can you imagine two years later, and they still haven’t found the information they seek. So, what I did was send them some of the information but not all. It took me years to gather this information and all they had to do was rate my response and they couldn’t even do that. They acted like I was asking for money.
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
28 Apr 12
How can you know whether they rated you or not? I notice that friendships are weird on here. I have a task available at the moment and several have completed it but there are still many slots available. I would have thought that friends would let each other know with a buzz in a PM. I know that I often link topics to friends here when they are mentioned in a response which I feel they might not see. At this point I wonder whether trust comes before or after friendship?
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@sirnose (2436)
• United States
28 Apr 12
Because I would hover over my star to see if my rating went up for example if its a 71/100 and someone rated me it should show in a day a two as 72/100. I know friendships here like begin in the twilight zone.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
28 Apr 12
The DRS does not work like that at all. It works on percentages. You have 1652 user activity rating and it is going to take MANY more than 1 or 2 plusses to make yours move up. Maybe that user did plus you and then another left you a negative rating at the same time. They would balance out and it would not move up.
@sirnose (2436)
• United States
29 Apr 12
So, I just should give valuable information away with no incentive, some mylotters wont even say thank you once they got what they seek, let alone give the best response or rating your response post "+". See! this whats lacking here some mylotters don't understand the concepts of online earning.
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
Well it is a lesson that you really can't trust anybody now a days. You shouldn't expect something in return because it is hard to negotiate to a person who you really don't know. It is common these days wherein you often meet someone like the person you negotiated. So try to be careful next time in giving your trust.
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@sirnose (2436)
• United States
28 Apr 12
I understand that but we are here to earn and we must stop trying to get something for nothing. I have notice this from especially the young generations of today, they don't have a work ethic. They want someone else do the hard work while they reap the benefits.
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
Well, most people, if none, don't like to be taken advantage of. I guess they join other sites without hesitating (..that much, at least) because it's their decision. If someone else told them to join a certain site and it turns out to be a scam, it's a shot straight to their egos.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
29 Apr 12
First of all: what works for one doesn't need to work for someone else. Many sites, tasks don't work for every mylotter, it also depends on the country where you live. Also.. we all are different and not everybody is able to spend the same amount of time on the internet. I doubt if it all is about not trusting other mylotters. Also.. to many it's better to see first by themselves and believe and not to trust everything,it's their way to learn to remember. I would not see this as a personal attack. This besides of the fact that many people are not honest, esp. not if it comes to the internet.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
29 Apr 12
huh?? "What's the use to have a friend's list or a list of any kind and you can't utilize it for your benefit" First you talk about trust - now you say that you "use friends for your benefit"
@sirnose (2436)
• United States
29 Apr 12
It don't have nothing to do with honesty this is why we have rules to follow to protect us from dishonest acts. There was nothing dishonest about my request. I would not ask someone to do something that I wouldn't do. What's the use to have a friend's list or a list of any kind and you can't utilize it for your benefit.