Why???

@ryanong (9664)
Vietnam
May 4, 2012 10:32pm CST
My boyfriend had a plan going to Cambodia and then go to Ho Chi Minh city-Vietnam for his work. However he didn't talk me at all. Yesterday I connected to facebook and I saw his location is Phompenh-Cambodia and then HCM city. I guess he is still in HCM city now, I am upset and angry. Why didn't he say anything about his trip to me? What should I do in this case?
3 responses
@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
7 May 12
You should ask him why he did not invite you and not even tell you- you shouldn't get angry so fast and ask for a reason, maybe he has a good one. I hope everything goes well.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
7 May 12
Yeah, you are right, but when i saw his information on Facebook like that, i...cant stop being angry and upset. I hope he will give me a right reason for it also...
• United States
5 May 12
It sounds as though he just isn't that interested in you. You'll know where you stand when he returns. If he comes back without a nice gift for you, that is a pretty clear sign of where you rank in his life.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
6 May 12
Oh, i am so sad now....
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
5 May 12
Probably he did not tell you because he changed his plans or he knew you would be angry or he doesn't find you interesting enough to tell or he doesn't care about your opinion or he doesn't see you as his partner/gf. Which of the given options is right according to you? What do you think you can do or change from such a distance? If he is there you can not change is if not there is nothing to do for you as well. Ignore it/him, go on with your life and wait and see what he has to tell you sooner or later.
@ryanong (9664)
• Vietnam
6 May 12
OMG, if the reason is he doesn't care me as his girlfriend while in fact i am his girlfriend right now, i will be so so sad... You may right, i should ignore him and go on with my life and wait to see what is the reason he will give me... Thank you for your advice.