the way we get angry with people
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
May 5, 2012 9:33pm CST
i have noticed that most people do swear and curse when they get angry. i was not in a habit since i was young to say things like curses even when making jokes or just say it for no reason. i do consider it very serious thing to use those f*** words and other words like that for whatever reason. i have different way to show my anger or disappointment. i may put on angry face, but that's it. i may do say the things i feel but without those curses and f words. i just don't feel comfortable with those words and feel that they are very much unnecessary. most of the time i just walk out or just stay quite to the point you would know i am trying to avoid to talk because i am angry.
8 responses
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
7 May 12
I had a friend who sue to use such bad words when he see any wrong things around him. I had told him that they are very cheap word sand I had asked him never to use them again but still now he use it.
Really such words defines the culture of a person. It also defines the attitude or the way of speaking of their parents. As a kid to your parents it is your duty to make others to tell that you are the best and your parents are good.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
7 May 12
At the burst of anger, so thus the loss of our control over of our emotions, raging into such temperament and deliberately blurting out anger emotions into swearing and cursing. In my opinion, the negative emotion only causes negative thoughts and also sort of a retaliatory way of getting back to tend to cause hurting the other person.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
6 May 12
I am not a fan of profanity either but there seems to be less and less means to avoid hearing it today. It makes me very sad when I ask others to not use such language around me and they become defensive as if I've said something offensive. I agree that you can show your emotions in other and more positive manners.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
6 May 12
my friends and i always have fun but we don't curse. when we met up with some friends back in high school, we were all surprised because they curse a lot. even their expressions were curses 
we didn't really enjoy their company.
some curse a lot even when they are not angry... ummm just to look cool maybe? 
we didn't really enjoy their company.
some curse a lot even when they are not angry... ummm just to look cool maybe? 
@jobfindonline (1744)
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6 May 12
An angry person can easily say words that later become cause of regrets. That is why we should try to control our anger to the best we can. I respect people and I want to receive the same treatment as I view them so I really avoid saying bad words to anyone. When we utter bad words, it is like a knife that can hurt the feeling of a person and of course will just worsen the situation. Sometimes, these are the start of fighting, throwing hurtful words to each other and even physical attacks.
I would like to commend you for avoiding such bad words. It will keep you away from any troubles or greater regrets in life.
@Lida2010 (84)
• Colombia
6 May 12
I personally think to each it's own. I would prefer for people to express themselves freely, however it may be than to go into a rage and hurt others. Sometimes when people don't vent their anger appropriately, whether it's through curse words or not. I personally do not get offended as long as they are not geared towards me or others. We all deal with things differently and perhaps people that use curse words need a way to vent.
@jimosheng (31)
• Dalian, China
6 May 12
yeah neither do i.
but i can understand the people's mouth full of that.
cuz it's just the habit. the same with u and me.
if u used to say that to express anger, u'll find difficult to express anger without it.
i think it's the kind of spoken culture.
just like f word, pronouncing it need strenth, that make angry people feel better.
in my country(China), it's the same. many old words can't express new anger now, then their pronunciation changed.
@cloud31 (5809)
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6 May 12
I don't speak any curse to people when I'm mad. Its disgraceful and disappointing.Words are just powerful and you may know that would turn into reality. As a person we should not curse when we are mad.We can just speak in modulated explain when needed or just walk away.
When I'm angry I keep myself quiet and stay in a place where I can meditate not to give any feedback. I analyze the situation and myself why I feel mad.Its not in my vocabulary to curse even how angry I am.
Happy sunday!
Happy sunday!
