Future decides future!
By fjclolazy
@fjclolazy (859)
China
May 7, 2012 10:12pm CST
We couldn't decide anything when we were born.who are ur parents and what kind person they r,we can't decide.it's said that we can decide anything in our life even we can change the fate.I think it's really.i don't know what'll happen in the future.u r wrong if u think that u can change something in the future.i don't believe any more.I just walk with fate.To do or not to do,that's a question,and there's only an answer for this question,and fate decides this answer.Life is a game,obiously the rule isn't controlled by us,we just listen to fate.The fate has arranged everything including changing,what u'll do and what u'll stop.that's what i'm thinking now.i don't know what'll happen in the future,the good things or bad things,whatever,i'm waiting for them,i just need to enjoy my good time now,at least now!
Sorry for some friends of mylot,i haven't been here for such a long time.please let me know if u have any questions.welcome to chat with me.please give me a comment if u have different opinions.thanks!
Have a good time!
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6 responses
@heatherrose (23)
•
8 May 12
I'm sorry I completely disagree with you there. We can decide and choose everything and yes we did even as babies. We decided when to cry and when to eat. A baby could be hungry but its up to them if they cry out that something is wrong. The older we get the more we know and the more we can decide what to do or how to react to a situation. And even not doing something is still a decision. And as for not choosing our parents and how or where we were born all I can say is what if we did decide all this but we did it before we were born? And what if we decided these things so we could learn, grow and experiance? Makes you think, eh?
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
thanks ur disagreement,i'm agree with u a part.we can decide when to cry and when be hungry.but we still couldn't decide who would be our parents.oh i have to say,i couldn't decide which kindergarten i should go.When i was a baby,i couldn't decide who gave me a hug,i couldn't refuse those people i hated,i couldn't say anything just cried but no one heard it.
so i think we should see everything on two sides.i'm sure that something in our life we can't decide but the rest we can decide,what we should do is that decide anything as posible as we can and try our best.so we should catch the chance if we have chance to make a decision.that's what i wanna say,don't be too hesitate sometimes,or u r missing a chance to make a decision.
Anyways thanks ur sharing and welcome to talk about ur opinion.
Have a good time!
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
Yeah,u r right,we can react to something happen in our life,but ask urself,whether something u can't decide or not in ur life.we would be affected by any factors.For example,i really wanna eat that hamburgar now,but i can't decide it and i can't eat it coz i'm loosing my weight,the weight is deciding my action haha just kidding,but that's what i'm really thinking about.As i said before,we can decide what we wanna decide,but nothing is absolute.the best way to solve it is to face it.
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@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
9 May 12
I totally agree with you heatherrose. You are one of the few people on here that I have come across so far that shares my way of thinking. However, in all fairness I haven't been on here that long so I may come across others. I believe that we made decisions for this life before we arrived her on earth as well. It's possible that we did choose who our parents would be, just as some of us chose to be "different". And you are exactly right, in my humble opinion that we choose these things to learn and grow...for expansion.
While we may not be able to choose minor details such as which kidergarten we attend we can certainly choose how to react to the one we are attending. We couldn't decide who gave us a hug, because that was their decision to hug us and we cannot control others decisions, but we could decide how to react to that person's hug. As I stated previously we can't control OTHER people's decisions but we can choose how to react to them.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
8 May 12
IMO we CAN change our future. There are only two things in this life that we have no control over. When we enter and when we exit. Everything in between, that is to say our whole lives, we create ourselves by the choices and decisions we make. We were given free will and that's what life is all about. Our freedom to make choices. What we choose creates our human journey and we have complete control over it. We do not have control over the choices and decisions OTHERS make, and sometimes the decisions of others have an effect on our life but again, we choose how to react to those effects.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
there r two saying about it.About idealism,everything is controlled by fate or faith.To change or not to change,they r still decided by fate.but for reality,we would meet different things happening in our life,but we have ability and responsibility to make a decision or change something to be better.
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@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
As u think,u decide to reponse or not here,u decide which copies u will read.u just made a good decision,coz u chose my copy to read and response,haha~~~anyways good decision!!!
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
9 May 12
Every choice and decision that we make has an impact on our future. We create our own journey through this life by the decisions we make. We can choose to take risks or not. We can choose to be happy or not. We can choose our careers, our partners, how many children we have, where we live, etc etc etc. The list goes on and on. All of these things shape our future.
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
8 May 12
We can change ourselves and things around us, so that the future may change by that way.
But some people think they can not change anything. I think it is totally wrong. You can change a lot of things for future. Future is built up by people, while you are one of them, if you do what you can do, future will become different from now, if everyone did something, future may totally change.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
8 May 12
didferent people have different opinions,and some people would think that changing or not is also something decided by fate.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
8 May 12
God has determined the fate of all creatures his. However, their fate still be changed by prayer them. As long as they meant it in their prayer, God would hear and grant whatever they want. So, future not decides future. The Future depend on your prayer
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
8 May 12
thanks for ur comment,maybe i'm wrong and very negative.Life would be very boring and rubbish if we can't decide anything.we should find out something to change and let it be better,that's life.but sorry,i don't understand what u mean by saying "the future depend on prayer".
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 May 12
I think that the decisions we make will affect our future whether good or bad. There are unforeseen occurrences that all of us at times in our life will experience. But I don't believe that "destiny" or "fate" controls our life. If that were the case it wouldn't make sense for us to pursue any thing as we should just be letting "fate" decide. Good decision topic.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
Hi there,thanks ur comment.I'm sure that i believe fate,something happen in my life that means i must face them.I believe fate that doesn't mean i just walk with the fate and do nothing to change.Don't u think so?
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 May 12
I think that our decisions and the decisions of others affect our life. If everything were fate or destiny it wouldn't be able to be changed because it would already be planned that that is how everything is suppose to happen. That's why I don't believe in fate or destiny.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
8 May 12
Hi happy to see you!
I believe in fate but in the meantime, I think that keep on believing fate for something more danger to life is just being stupid. Whatever happens in future we just throw it, but we have to input our hardwork as far as possible.
One of our colleagues dad was so sick and the doctors said he wont be alive no more. But they still had hope that he would live for some more days and spend more money for his treatment. It is here that fate is decided but they put their effort.
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
8 May 12
hi there,nice to see u too!
u r right,we should believe fate,but at the meantime we should also believe ourseves,and sometimes try our best,just like ur colleagues dad,hope is the most important,they won't regret even fate ends it up coz they have tried their best and put effort.
