I love you Mom...how did I ever forgot to tell her (-_-)

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
May 7, 2012 11:14pm CST
Someone posted this on my facebook page [b]"I love you MOM Share if you love you Mom"[/b] This gives me a little kick on my check (-_-) I love my Mom and lately forgot to tell her that "I love her" Saying "i love you " frequently sounds OA (overacting) to other, but I won't get tired of telling my mom how much I love her even if I sounds OA -whatever. Okay, if you find it hard to tell her I love you, what are your ways of showing you love your mom. To all mothers out there "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY" Good day everyone See you later guys, going out with my kids (^_^) jaiho®- date with kids :p 5-08-2012 12:14pm Tuesday
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
8 May 12
It is nice that you can actually say i love you to your mom, this is one thing that i have not done yet. it is bugging me why but it has been that way since i was a kid. I NEVER HEARD MY MOM SAY I LOVE YOU TO ME - which hurts, yes i am scanning my brains for such memories but there isn't any, even to my brother none..and same for my dad... i do not know why. That is why i made it a point not to be that way to my kids, i tell them i love them every single day, before i go to work,before we sleep, before we do something i tell them that and even my husband i tell him that everyday even tho he would like be fed up hearing that i do not care.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 May 12
I NEVER HEARD MY MOM SAY I LOVE YOU TO ME No one ever said I LOVE YOU to me But... that is life, we are so similar... always feel hurt when Mom or others dont say what we wanna listen...
• Philippines
8 May 12
I don't know why we have the same case jazel but I'm sure our parents love us even if they don't say i love you to us. My mom and dad is always at my side especially when I needed them the most,that way,I felt how much they love me.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello jazel and cutie, I am close to my mom although I am a grandpa's girl (I grew up with my folks) For unknown reason (yes,honestly- unknown reason) something went wrong between me and my mom. This is going on for months already. She's too far and I am looking forward for the day that we will see each other in person and settle this unknown reason (gap) between us. It's really sad when perfect situation must go wrong Anyway, Happy Mothers dear moms
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• Philippines
8 May 12
hi jai, Well telling our mother I love you is not over reacting if possible we always let them feel or hear that words . happy mylotting ooopppssss.......... I LOVE YOU
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
bhaby.... We express more than saying " i love you"
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
@ cutie, She's so happy really
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• Philippines
8 May 12
My dear bhaby,you look so happy and pretty in your avatar!
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Same to you Jai, Happy Mother's Day too. I'm not sweet in a verbal way. I'm more on action, I never says either that I love her in words I just show it to her. I'm her provider and most of the time I took care of their needs. I respect her, I still call her and tried to visit her even she far away with my dad. I hope in this way I show her how much I love her and very much appreciated that she give birth to me, and she never neglect me and she take care of me.
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
8 May 12
I will call her in advance, i can't visit her since i have to go there in your city this weekends. Maybe this time i can say the magic word hehehe, since it is more easy on the phone.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello lyn, I am not that showy too and yes, action speaks louder than words. But, honestly, when someone says i love you -ahemm- isn't too sweet and make us feel so important. Okay- not to tell we're feeling "cloud nine" (hahaha) Oho, opppss...I am going the other way already- been carried away with too much love (ahihihihi) We can always show and make our mom's feel they are special in our own little way. Sometimes a hug or a kiss is enough to tell how much we love her. Happy mothers day
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Aha,you're coming just in time. Oh well- I guess we can call this a celebration. Mother's Day celebration
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
8 May 12
My dear jai,happy mother's day! To tell you the truth my friend,I haven't said that to my mom yet vocally ever since,don't know why. I just don't feel like saying it to her but I do love her that much! I only say it through messages,hehe! We're gonna have a date this month and I will just set it on mother's day.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello cutie, No worries with saying i love you, what matters most is your own way of showing your love. We have different ways to making our mom feel they are important. We can always show our care and love to them in many ways and like the saying goes "action speaks louder than words". but I am sure your little angel loves to say " i love u mom" Happy Mothers Day too
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• Philippines
9 May 12
Oh yes my dear jai,my little Crystal always tells me those sweet words and it really makes me smile and makes me hug her tight,hehe!
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@viju0410 (2286)
• India
8 May 12
Hi Jaiho, Every time when I hang up the phone after talking to my mom, she always says god bless you all and take care of the kids & husband and other family members. She never says she loves me but I love telling her (I do tell her also) she is one of the greatest moms in the world. I think the time is being changed now with my children. Yesterday I prepared ‘chole’ & Puri (spicy chick peas & deep fried chapatti in small round) for dinner and my children reacted by saying at least 10 times luv u mom and I didn’t count how many kisses/hugs I got from them. Of course the dish was one of their favorites and I tried it after a long time. When I look back, every weekend my mom used to prepare those snacks and meals which is in demand by me/ my elder brother but we only reacted by saying its tasty & superb. Have a nice time with your kids.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello viju, So, I guess you know how it feels when your kids hug,kiss and say "i love you mom" It's so sweet right? It's like music in the ear- it's like being in cloud nine. I know hugs and kisses are enough, but hearing such word gives another impact-we could hardly define. We use to do the same thing, hug, kiss and say "luv u mom" to our mom whenever she give us something. Me and my siblings are having fun when our mom give us present or something each time she comes home for a vacation (she lives abroad). And we're teasing each other like- we should kiss, hug and say more "i love you mom" so our mom will give us more Thanks and Happy Mothers Day
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
9 May 12
HI, Right, it indeed is a great feeling and i think I can treasure these memories in my heart forever. Take care and happy mother's day to you too... enjoy!
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@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Happy Mother's day to all mothers out there! If I have to mention my top 10 Regrets of all time - the little time I spend with my mother- would be my top 1. Mother is gone, I can't help but always feel the emptiness. I regret giving her only a part of my time. I should have spend more time and show her that she is loved very much. I really miss her,but she is now in a better place. So to all, say "I love you Mom" while they are able to feel it. You still have time.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 May 12
hello mikyung, Yes, it feels we haven't done enough to show how much we love our moms. I am sorry to hear about your mom :( Yah, she is in a better place and all you have , is her memories of happy moments :) Thanks and have a good day
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Hello Jaiho... Mother's Day is already coming on Sunday. We have not yet received anything or planned anything for mom. :D I sure hope we would be able to make the day special. :D
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello chiyosan, You still have few days to plan or buy something for her. I am sure your mom would love whatever gift you will give her. Mom's are not hard to please , they always appreciate little things from their kids. Thanks and have a great day
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 May 12
ho jaiho was last sunday mother's day or this co ming I have los ttrack of holidays busy trying to increase my earnings on m ylot. My mom has been gone for years but I did t ell her often how much i loved her. my son does so many unexpected nice things 'for me and yet he seldom says I love you mom but he shows it all the time.My husband always sent me the most gorgeous of cards and being a r omantic I did keep them all, now sadly they are in storage. but anway my memories are so good,happy days again.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 May 12
dear Hatley, Your son is really sweet for giving your surprises. I can feel you have so much memories about your husband, lovely and sweet memories that time cannot erased- oh how I wish to find someone who can also give me good reason to reminisce with the past HAPPY MOTHERS DAY ma'm
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
8 May 12
Hi di Though mom never said I love you (like jazel's on #1), I think I dont need her to tell me that as I can feel it. I wished she could feel the same from me. Though I keep telling her, I know it doesnt matter she would always love me the way she does and that is what makes moms - moms
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
sids, We have different ways of showing our love to our moms. We can show it in our own little ways. Saying the word sometimes is another thing- it's so sweet to hear when kids say those magic words. I do not often tell it to my mom either- but there were occasions that I do say "i love you" to her. A hugs or a kiss is enough to make our mom feel they are important and we love them that much. Hugs to your mom on Mother's day
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 May 12
I usually would tell my mom that i love her, whenever i go to our hometown to visit them. And this is, as i am about to leave, because i hug and kiss them and say "love you".
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello D, It's nice to hug, kiss and say " i love you mom" It's like bringing us back to our kiddie days :( (ohh, feeling nostalgic) And being a mom, we do understand the real feeling of missing our kids when they're still babies (oh gosh- missing it a lot) hehehe Happy Mothers Day
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
8 May 12
I am not as vocal as you are towards saying I Love you to my mom even with brothers and sister not for being OverActing or whatsoever but shyness LOL. Yes, I am nothing but shy son to utter those words especially in person. I rather put it in writing or call her. I may not be good in words but I show it different ways.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello Lance, I understand that most sons do not express their love by saying the word. I have two brothers and one of them is so expressive when saying "i love you mom" to our mom- while the other is not (he is too shy ). But we can always show our love to our parents in different ways. We have our own special way of making them feel they are important and how much we love them. Don't worry, I am sure you are great with expressing it your own way. Thanks and have a great day
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
13 May 12
Wish one day you will come here, touch my feet and receive my blessings.. Hugs from maa to Jane beti HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Sorry for late response.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 12
dear maa, I really wish that day to come
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
9 May 12
hi there,i have to say u just start a nice topic. I love mu mon,but i have never said "I love u" to her.we can love a person by many ways.sometimes we just need a smile. I study at another city,i went home just twice a year,i would call my parents when i have time.i know,getting a call from me is the happiest things for them soemtimes. Btw,have a good time with ur kids!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 May 12
hello fjclolady, We have different ways of showing our parents how much we love them. We have different ways of making them they are important. As the saying goes "action speaks louder than words" :) Thanks for the greetings and have a good day
• Australia
8 May 12
You never know a good thing until it's gone... I hope kids of all generations will learn to appreciate their moms!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello sue, Exactly! That is why we should and must make our parents know how we love them. We should always tell them how much we love them whenever we got the chance. We should express how much we care for them. We should let them feel they are the most important people in our lives. It is not over-acting for doing so- and no matter how other people see it (over-acting or over-doing) it is better than regretting things left undone and words unsaid. Thanks and have a good day - Happy Mother Day
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
8 May 12
I love my mom, too. But I do not want to tell her but want her to feel that. In new year day, I will bring my mom gift and wish her happy new year. Now i will make a phone call on the Mother's Day. I think to spend time with her is a good way to show my love with her.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello dandano, As the saying goes "Action speaks louder than words" I agree with that, but you know- saying the word is like a song, that's my opinion. I am also a mom and when my kids says "i love you mom" that's the sweetest song ever been played. Showing our love is a great way to show and make our mom feel that they are always special. Thanks and have a good day
• India
8 May 12
I don't used to express my love by telling her I LOVE YOU. Most of the time i show my love by gifting her something. Few days ago i gifted her a saree, which made her to twinkle on her face.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 May 12
hello wonder, I love to have one (sari) too -ahahaha. You're great I can say. Not all kids gives something or gift to their parents. Although I know that, most kids give gift to their moms than to their dads- opss..not sure about this. But, most kids are closer to their mom (as far as I know) Anyway, giving gift or little things to our mom is one of the best way to show we love them. I am sure your mom feel so happy and believed me- you even made her cry with your gift. Thanks for the share and have a good day