Do you pick people who to tell your deeper thoughts and emotions?

Yes, we don't have to pick who to tell our problems. Our heart would do all the job for us. Being comfortable with him/her, allows us to relax. Once we are in that mode, things would flow naturally without the need for any introduction before we enter the problems itself. It happens to most of my guy friends, they always seem to come to me when they have problems. I like to be a listener to their problems but sometimes, they just took me for granted, thinking i will always be there, placing them above my bf, but no way.

I go with my feelings at the time. I can open up to strangers if I feel like it, and I can just let everyone knows my feelings without bothering who will really hear it or not. Of course it depends on the type of thoughts and emotions I have. Sometimes I just could not find anyone to share my thoughts cause I feel it's too weird even for myself...

I would like to say, yes.. haha :D It's just like that, we tend to choose whoever we feel comfortable with, it's an inner feeling that allows us to share problems. There are times i really wish i can share my problems with some of my close friends, and i already had them in mind. But the moment i see them, i just can't find the right words to describe what i feel and what i wanna tell them Even picking/choosing who to tell can add on to the problems we are already facing.. haha

not all people are interested to listen. we have chosen friends where we can tell the things that bother us or the things that make us happy. they do not have to be many. even if it is only one, the thing is you have someone to cry your heart's out. we have to be really careful in telling personal matters with people we are not really attached to or have deep relations with. acquaintances are not friends, and even some friends are not worth the time. so we have to choose. hope everything is okay with you.

I tend to be a bit of a complex person. I am pretty much open and honest about most things, but there are thoughts, emotions and situations that I will not reveal to many people. Fortunately, I have found several people throughout my life whom I feel comfortable opening up to about things, and they do the same with me. Several of them I have just felt an instant connect with, and they have proven to be wonderful and true friends.

People are good and also bad , people use to listen but not really listen it if you get my point :) even if they listen , they cannot understand it and so on , you say you have someone that can listen to you that`s the most IMPORTANT things , that you have someone to listen ! The person who will laugh when you tell him what you feel , can laugh only one time because you tell him what you feel only one time , but a person that listens to your feelings , you can tell anytime and not JUST ONLY ONCE ! Don`t get sad because that person didn`t took you seriously , be thankful that you will not tell that person anything again regarding your feelings :) You know people are people ......we are not all the same

I tend to have this problem. I think the issue is more trust than anything else. There are very few people I truly trust. I tend to learn whether or not to trust someone by telling them something unimportant and see if it spreads. The ones I don't trust are the ones I know will spill a secret and tell everyone what I want to tell them if I want something to spread around like a virus.

yeah, there are indeed people whom we feel trustworthy of our stories and feelings. we sense that they can understand what we are going through. i love these people around me. they make me feel strong and confident to face the challenges and difficulties in life. they also assure me of things turning out fine.

only you can tell if your friendship will last or not...im sure you can see sincerity from among your friends and knows which ones will be good friends for a long time ...and those people you choose will be ready to tell you anything you wanted...

Hi Vi! How are you?! can't catch you anywhere! our time just didn't match! Anyway, back to topic... of course I do choose to whom I tell my deeper thoughts and emotions as well as some secrets! (secrets which are not really a secret since I tell it to someone! haha) But it all depends on the thing that I ant to share, like I don't share all the things in my mind to a single person. I choose the topic that I share depend on the person to whom I talk with... because I know that not everybody will understand and will relate to me. There are things that I just share to my mom but I didn't share to my husband and vise versa...hehe there are things that I also share to one friend but not to another friend... did you get it? you know sometimes I even share some things to a stranger...someone ho don't really know me and yet I share some thoughts and emotion to them, not for anything else but only to let my feelings out...sometimes I just want to let go of my feelings that I don't care if the person I am talking with is interested or what, I just need someone to be there to listen...

I think this is a function of age too. I remember being like this when I was young. When it was easy for me to open up and pour my feelings to anyone who would care to listen. Nowadays, people around me, and who are relatively older, are pre-occupied with other things that they've deemed more important. That's why I think we're stuck with people that we knew when we were young, as the people we choose to tell our deep thoughts and emotions.

hi dear... Really. it's hard to say that people have been real to us or not. There are lots of people who will come in our lives, but a few just stays. I think you are having a hard time opening up your real emotions and thoughts. That's how I see you dear. You are very secretive. Just like me. I'm like that because I don't trust people easily. And besides, I don't have that much friends for a reason I don't know why.. But, when I get to have friends, the ones who remains are those who are real to me. I hate fake ones. But you know what, I try people also. Specially if I have doubts about them. I tell them my thoughts. But then I get to realize they are not to be trusted, because I learn that they tell it to others. And when i'm disappointed to a person, I don't trust them. Ever. But, still I can talk to them, but say they are my friends, i'm sorry but no thanks.. I'm too picky with friends. And I am also picky with whom I share the most personal thoughts I want to share...

Of course, we have to carefully choose whom to confide with. Especially, for your deep thoughts and problems in life. You don't want to waste your time pouring out your emotions to someone who doesn't even care, and probably would end up talking about you and your problems to other people in a malicious way.

Sometimes I also felt that. It's like I want to burst all my emotions to a friend of mine but then I was also stopped with the thought that she may not understand my feeling for she hasn't experience the same way that I did. We are all 13 in our circle of friends and among those 12 people I have 2 closest friends whom I can share my problems and secrets for we also have the same situation.