i will still be happy

@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
May 15, 2012 12:18am CST
oh yes i will still be happy.. be happy be happy i will smile i will smile oh yes i will smile i will laugh and be happy.. i am chanting this now as i do not want negative vibes, somehow i will still smile.and i would not cry. anyone tried cheering up their own selves? lol like thinking of happy thoughts, dreams... how'd you do it? now let us dance!
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19 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 May 12
Hi jazel Here is what I do these days when I am upset, sad and missing my wife http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TyrX8dq170 [Not a referral Link] Though that is a Celine Dion song, I love the stuart little on the video.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
ohh you love that song...my kids sing that song in videoke! Well i guess i will listen to some upbeat songs to make me feel good, i personally love Jason Mraz - I'm yours...
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
you referring to the chocolates i believe.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
15 May 12
I'm yours...
@Vivianh (331)
• China
16 May 12
Hi,jazel-juan.Ya,we have to always be happy.Because the life is suck and we have to keep ourselves out of the negative influence,so,keep the life more laughter and more dreams.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
indeed life sucks in some ways but then life is also beautiful in so many ways..
• India
16 May 12
Hey Vivianh , So do you used to keep the life with a smile to everything ?
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@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
15 May 12
We should always be happy. We should enjoy life, with happiness. This life, too lovely to our sorrow. It would be a loss, if we are content to live with grief.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
i do agree with you plus some people have worse problems that i do right now...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 May 12
That's the spirit Honestly, when I feel down and rejected. I tell myself -"hah...why should I cry for unworthy things, my tears are too precious and I won't waste a teardrop for yah" (lols) But I admit, doing this made me stone hearted. I can hardly cry these days and I feel that- I become mean/hard. Oh...too much heartaches cemented my heart I wrote articles opposite from my poetry and that made me feel relax and say "hah, I will never give you satisfaction" (talking to myself) uh uh
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
i know ms.jai, i could not let it make my day go sour, so here i am and mylot is making me happy.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
16 May 12
jazel_juan This reminds me of the saying..fake it till you make it... I agree with you, one can and should try to cheer themselves and dancing is one of the best ways since it can lift your mood quickly
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
sure does..
• United States
15 May 12
I believe we can't wait fr someone else to make us happy. We have to find it in ourselves. I try do do at least 1 thing a day to make me feel good. If someone happens to do something that make me smile that is great too. Live your best live to the fullest.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
it is a must to live our lives to the fullest as we do not know when it will end
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
15 May 12
It's good to try to be happy. Dancing, t'ai chi, talk to friends, watch comedies, all kinds of stuff that I dot o be happy. Hope you find happiness and stay happy, too.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
i used to do t'ai chi before back in college and it was refreshing..hmmmm i forgot the moves now...
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
15 May 12
Now that's the spirit You go girl! :) Negative vibes don't bring any good to your mood and will only ruin your entire week ahead. The possibilities of your vacation being cancelled might be high but for sure, you can still enjoy the remaining days of summer with your family by going out to a mall near you and just let your kids have fun. A mother always becomes happy once her kids are happy. Just be positive, everything will be all good.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
i know. it is tiring to have that kind of mood, i am better now, i just need to sleep i guess
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 May 12
That's the spirit jazel. Don't be put down by negative feelings. Me, whenever i feel lonely, i cry in my bedroom while husband is at work. Then, after that talk to God, as if he is my father. Then, i will be a bit okay after that. I will eat a favorite fruit or food, and watch happy TV shows. By the moment my husband arrives, i am ready to share it with him. I know, he will say "ikaw kasi", but i know that he will comfort me.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
It is nice to hear that your hubby knows how to comfort you, i wish mine would learn that too. can you get him to teach my hubby that? anyways, yes i do want to be with myself later and talk to God, it also eases what ever burden i feel and i know somehow things will be easier.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 May 12
I think your husband , jazel needs a little prodding to be a bit comforting or compassionate. Initiate it, by being so at all times, and they will follow. Maybe you yourself is also not that. I totally agree jazel and averygirl, that we should ward off unhappiness. Don't always think that things will work out our way. Just think that, if didn't work the way we expect it, God has better plans for us.
@averygirl72 (37748)
• Philippines
15 May 12
I agree with her, that is the spirit! We need to say those words to ward off negative vibes. Everyday be happy, try to be happy, laugh freely, if you want to cry sometimes do it at times. Enjoy life!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
hi, yes of course,we need to be happy every time because sad will maker our face ugly,being happy is really good to us because it will change the way we think,the more happy we are the more positive we are in life,to be happy we need to positive.sometimes i just play with my nephew and i will become happy enough for that.
• India
27 Aug 12
Life really moves positively when have smile on our face and this is the one of the reason I just try to put some smile on my face even when I have little sad occasions in my life.
• India
27 Aug 12
I believe life is only one and I try to enjoy it at the maximum. Life is not all about the fun and the smile. It is a mixture of all emotions. So we people have to just cop up with it.
@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
15 May 12
You should be happy; you've just reached 5000+ mark here... Let me be the first one to congratulate you on that!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
15 May 12
i didn't notice that! lol thank you for pointing it out.
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• India
15 May 12
Oh! It's very good to see you happy. Be happy. Take care.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
yes let us spread happiness my friend
• India
15 May 12
haha... nice one.. i was in a bad mood today and now i saw this i'm happy... thank you
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 May 12
glad i was able to help
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
19 May 12
That's right Jazel attract the positive one. I do believe in law of attraction when you think that your in a positive way you can attract good vibes. But when your always in pain and agony negative forces will always feel. I keep smiling keeping good thoughts in my mind, negative forces are always there but I don't entertain it I just snob it.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
16 May 12
I have in my head the Bob Marley song Possitive Vibrations.
• United States
16 May 12
Hi jazel. I don't know what has upset you. I see you have another discussion started. I will check it out and maybe the answer is there. I think a good way to feel better is to pray. You could also call a friend or family member. Sometimes when you get something off your chest to the right person, it helps you to feel better. Try talking to someone who doesn't always have negative things to say about everything in life. Talk to someone who kind of makes you smile or laugh when you go around them. I hope things are better now and you feel like smiling for no reason at all!
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
28 May 12
Good job, trying to cheer your own self up. At least you are trying to do that instead of sulking. It's better that way. Yes i've tried it but most of the time it didn't work. So i talk to friends online when i couldn't talk to my real friends because they could distract me from my depressing situation. No wonder i'm hooked up to all of my gadgets. That's my own way of cheering myself up.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
16 May 12
hi, I am happy when you are happy and happy and sure i am on the dance floor.. I have some online friends who inspired to me 'smile in trouble' and they say they do it and it make you happy. In India we say 'all'z well' - extracted from a famous bollywood movie. LOL