We did it!! We are MARRIED!!
By 34momma
@34momma (13882)
United States
May 16, 2012 1:44pm CST
After 8 years of ups and downs, in and outs. Of loving each other and not always liking each others, we finally got married. I am telling you it's a whole new world. I just feel so good finally saying he is my Husband
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It was a simple wedding at city all with only our close family and one friend.
My question to you mylotters is this... When you got married, do you think your relationship got stronger?
I feel like know we are much closer. We talk more and laugh alot. I feel different. I feel settled and comfortable.
What's your take on this topic?
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It was a simple wedding at city all with only our close family and one friend.
My question to you mylotters is this... When you got married, do you think your relationship got stronger?
I feel like know we are much closer. We talk more and laugh alot. I feel different. I feel settled and comfortable.
What's your take on this topic?4 people like this
18 responses
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
18 May 12
Congratulations to you.. I have never been married, i'm still too young for that. But when my parents married, they felt the same thing.. they were so happy. I hope you stay together forever and your marriage becomes stronger as the years go by. 
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Congratulations!
That's exactly the right words "settled and comfortable"
That only means, you now have the right to call her your "husband" with all legalities.
You feel settled and secure that, he is yours after 8 long years.
More blessed years to come
@aquinoma05 (162)
• Philippines
17 May 12
first, I would like to congratulate you and your husband. I am getting married in less than a month now and I'm pretty much excited about it. I don't have any answer to your question yet but I think the change differs for every married couple. It depends on them to make or break the marriage. Lucky for you it made your relationship stronger. I think maybe because you really love each other and you already have settled your differences before marriage making you more close to each other after the wedding....
@34momma (13882)
• United States
17 May 12
congrats to you and your husband to be!! we got married at city hall so the planning of our wedding took me all of 2 hours! which i loved. maybe in 10 years we will have a big wedding. I wish for you all the best in your new life with you soon to be new husband!! Thanks you for the well wishes
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Oh congrats to the both of you. Another chapter is you lives was begun. Love, respect and communicate with each other always. There are lots of things on your journey as couple that are part of our lives that you could overcome together. Love love love and happiness to the both of you.
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@alutka (211)
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17 May 12
wedding, it's like the beginning of your common road, I congratulate you, of course, but I know from experience that, unfortunately, not always so sweet and wonderful as poczatku.Wielu now friends advise ye always talked and explained the misunderstanding, but sometimes some things are better left unsaid, pomilczec a time and quietly reflect on solution.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
17 May 12
Having a partner you can talk to about anything is very important. knowing you are not responsible for how they react to your truth is important too. it's not your job to make the other happy. but to be happy with who you are and share that with your partner
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@Rasniki09 (183)
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17 May 12
Congratulation on your marriage. I believe that it does make the relationship stronger. When I just got married, I felt the same way you did and I still do. I love saying my husband and I feel more closer to him now more than ever before.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
17 May 12
We did the same thing. I did feel more comfortable. I don't know that much changed between us, it was more just the idea.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
19 May 12
We got married in AZ where we lived, with borrowed witnesses, since we had no friends in the area. No family either.
Not sure if getting married changed anything, because the richer, poorer, better, wirse, sickness, health stuff was all tested before, and I think THAT was what strengthened us most. The nice thing for us was having our commitment on paper. Congratulations!!!
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
16 May 12
Congrats! IDK I think we were alot closer when we were dating and first married. It's harder when you work different schedules and have to juggle the schedules of a few kids.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
16 May 12
We have been together 8 years and I think for us we have become so much closer since we finally tied the knot. Because of his new job we don't spend that time together that we use too. Now he works on the weekends and i look forward to that time to myself. When we do spend some us time together we really enjoy it so much more!
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@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
16 May 12
True. But it is hard for us we don't really get any alone time but a rare date night.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 May 12
I don't fear anything or anyone. I have loving respect for God and my husband. I see God when I look at my husband and he see's God when he looks at me. When you live in fear life becomes a scary place. Live in love of God and you will see all the beauty of the world
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Best wishes and Congratulations! This is just the beginning of a journey to forever. This will be a lot different from your relationship before and you will discover more of both of you. I feel the same way as before and I feel like there is more to come for both of us. Stay happy!
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@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
17 May 12
Anyway congrats for having a good life with your husband. May god bless you to live longer with all the blessings.
I would like to have my marriage when i have a stronger bond with my partner. So that we don't have any misunderstanding between each of us. Thus life becomes little easy.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
17 May 12
there are always going to be misunderstandings and disagreements. tha'ts all apart of life and growing as people. It's how all about listening to each other and knowing that no matter what, you will also love and support each other. Thank you my friend!!
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
17 May 12
One of the surprising joys of having a wedding and the planning that goes with it, is that when it is over, you and your spouse are just glad to be together, and married.
Congrats to you and yours. I kept watching for my invite, but it never came. Marriage is a very special blessing and opportunity. Make the most of it and strive to do thing right. It will pay off for many years to come.
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@lakantar (1573)
• Greece
16 May 12
Congratulations :) Have a nice life together. I've never been married so I can only guess about it. I think it depends on the relationship before marriage, if it comes from a long relationship I don't think that the relationship changes since the relationship already gets strong enough, but when it comes to a shorter relationship I think that the marriage helps it get stronger.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Hello 34momma, I would like to congratulate you for your special day. however, your time and spend in marriage has only begun, trials and goodwills will come along the way. remember to settle things down and communicate with each other when ever there is problems along the way. I just feel happy for you
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