Are you addicted to new relationships? are you a serial cheater?

United States
May 16, 2012 10:40pm CST
Are you addicted to love? What I mean by this is the emotional high you get from a relationship. Here's my problem and it has been this way since my teens all the way until my current relationship with my fiance. The problem is I like the new relationship feeling of having someone like you or love you and trying to see how far you can make that person feel for you. The feeling of always having to be on your toes and trying to impress that person. I'm sure everyone has felt at least one time in a relationship that the feelings sort of plataeu that even if you love and care for someone it just doesnt feel as intense as it does the first few months of getting to know someone or dating. because of this it has cost me relationships because even though sexually and mentally i'm happy in the relationship. I get to a point that i feel like I'm no longer in risk of losing that person or having to impress them or always be super attentive. When the opportunity presents itself I find myself going with the flow with other people. It has happened twice already with my fiance and yet she continues to remain with me and I guess thats just the extent of her love that she has remained with me through it all even though she knows if the situation was reversed it would have been over a long time ago.
1 response
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
26 May 12
When I was younger, I easily get attracted to other guys, even if I have a steady boyfriend. And, when I'm really through with one, I break up with them to entertain a new guy. But, I had a bad heartbreak which taught me a great lesson. After that, I've learned to value relationships and the guy I'm with. I matured in handling relationships and have stuck with one person, who now is my husband. I think in your case, you need to dig deep within yourself. It's rather unfair for your fiance to have to bear with a cheating boyfriend all the time. If you are not ready to commit to her, perhaps its best if you let her go and make yourself free so you won't hurt her anymore.