In a relationship with my FRIENDS
By yeenmei1988
@yeenmei1988 (24)
May 17, 2012 10:18am CST
my friends means more than a boyfriend to me. They always there whenever I am sad and even when I'm happy. having a boyfriend for me is just a waste of time and money for now because its too early for that thing. I'd rather waste my time with my friends because I know that in the end we still have each other. yes, we also experienced conflicts and misunderstanding. but it was just a challenge for us and we are so proud that in every challenges we've been through we succeeded. if you are going to choose between having friends or for having boyfriend/girlfriend, what would you rather have? :D
2 responses
@lctravenisk (483)
• Brazil
17 May 12
I think we don't need to choose between friends and boy/girlfriend. Both are important in our life, for different reasons, and to have one don't exclude you to have the other.
I understand if you say that is too early to be in an intimate relationship with someone now for you, but for sure you can have friends and a boyfriend. And to date someone will never be a waste of time, because it is important for us to know ourselves and to understand the others in a different way that we have with our friends, this is my viewpoint. Happy mylotting.
@yeenmei1988 (24)
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18 May 12
yes ovcourse we can have both of them. but I still want to enjoy my life being single or with my friends because I know time will come that we will be having our family. your response was very much appreciated. I learn something from it. thanks! happy mylotting!
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@lctravenisk (483)
• Brazil
18 May 12
First, thanks for the best response. I really liked it.
I understand your choose, but try to don't keep your mind close. Maybe you can lose someone that could be special, because you believe it is not the time. When we found someone really special that understand us, we found time to our friends and to this person.
I hope you can enjoy your choose and I hope that you find someone when the time comes. Happy mylotting and thanks again.
@rashme317 (250)
• Philippines
17 May 12
well if it's me i would not choose., i would rather have a boyfreind and also a friends., having both will surely make someone happy :)
@yeenmei1988 (24)
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18 May 12
you also have the point. I respect your opinion, maybe I will agree with you when the right time comes. :D
