Wandering again...

Philippines
May 17, 2012 5:04pm CST
It's not about IGNORING her, it's about being able to have your OWN LIFE, do your OWN things, have your GOALS, fight to reach them. If you focus too much on a girl, you're being clingy, annoying, needy, passive, etc. That's not manly. But how could I manage my situation...
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
17 May 12
Quite simply you are a long way from being ready for a relationship. If you have a woman who wants one with you please do her a favor and say goodbye. At this point in your life you are all about yourself. You want what you want and that is it. There is nothing wrong with that but when you are talking about a serious relationship there need be a feeling, on both your parts, that you are now ready to compromise. Your very macho attitude will never work with a woman. When it comes to woman a real man is one that loves and respects her deeply and cares that what he does and what he says will make her happy. You need to come to the point where you better understand what a real man is. It is not one that must have it all his own way. It is one that knows what it takes to live with a woman. One that can love her for what she is and not what he thinks she should be. That is not a clingy needy passive person but one that respects her and love's her more than himself. So until you come to grips with this and better understand what a relationship is my advise to you is RUN, Do Not Walk, away from any woman that may be serious about you. You are only going to hurt her if you do not.
• Philippines
17 May 12
Thanks friend, will try
@leonnee (19)
19 May 12
U know God has given the choice for your future..Do you think that your choice is allowed by God? If not make a way to make a mistake right because if you cannot solve it that is the time the consequence occur. So meditate on it and make review of your past so that your mind will be opened to lead u on a right path..