did i do something wrong??
By kyrie27
@kyrie27 (67)
Philippines
May 18, 2012 12:13pm CST
why do people think,that i am wrong even i am right? even my suggestion is right...to help a person what to do to his life..guys my friend ask some advice to me what is right for him..bcoz his parents what him to study on his recent school but some of student there on his recent school is dangerous i told him enroll to my school your be'll safe there...but his parent don't allow him to enroll to my school
and his parents got angry at me..wow
4 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 May 12
If someone is asking for your advice you can give advice. If someone is telling you about his/her problems it's NOT said they are asking for your advice as well! Might be they just want someone who is listening to them so they can ventilate.
What will be right for your friend (in the end) you can't know since your friend is not you. His/her life is not the same as yours, neither is character, are parents, goals in life etc.
My next question is: who is paying for this study? If the parents are they have the right to say what they are willing to pay for, also if your friend is not an adult they are responsible.
If your friend is an adult he/she is responsible for his/her own life, study, future and the payments.
@kyrie27 (67)
• Philippines
18 May 12
it's a public school and they don't have to pay some thing..and he is a high school student..he told me in his recent school too dangerous for him. that's why he ask some advice for me and i give him some advice.well it's not problem anyway it's up to him ^_^ beside it's not my problem it's their problem :)
@maezee (41997)
• United States
19 May 12
I don't think we know the entire situation here. But are his parents paying for his schooling? If they are, then the kid probably has no choice but to go there. BUT -- if they are not -- and he is paying for it on his own, he just needs to stand up to his parents and do what he wants and go to school where he wants. If he is an adult and is paying for his own education, the decision should be up to him.
