why bad people gets good life? where is the karma there?

@luisaR (452)
Philippines
May 21, 2012 3:58pm CST
my son's father seem having the time of his life. things are going good for him, All his ambition is coming true. He is the madness nightmares I had. I just don't get it, he had made my life horrible through beating, swearing, not enough financial support, his family and him joined forces to humiliate me, hurt me over again, but why they are living the life they wanted? why good fate is with them and here I am , feeling myself the loser? Where is this bad karma for them? I just don't get it...
9 responses
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
22 May 12
Do not mind them. Focus on your own life and with your dreams. Remember, what you focus on expands. If you continue to focus on the way your son's father is treating you, then you are missing a lot in life. However, if your mind is filled and strongly focused on your dreams like the way a magnifying glass focuses the sun's ray into a single point, you will achieve your dreams. Life is a game, and every game has a rule to follow. Learn it. And always remember that those who plays unfairly will suffer the consequences in the end. Karma works slowly, but it is working.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
22 May 12
thank u visijay, now that is something ;-)
@tink91879 (742)
• United States
21 May 12
I ask myself this question a lot. I know people who use and hurt others and life just seems so simple, until you really think about it. They put forth the good fortune they have, but hide the pain they might feel. Plus your missing seeing all the blessings you have in your life. I know its hard to see ppl who hurt you or others seem to have it so easy, but just take a minute and think about what you have in your life and what you plan to accomplish and you might find your mush more blessed.
@luisaR (452)
• Philippines
21 May 12
thank u tink. it's encouraging. I hope i get my fair of shot as well. have a good day ;-)
@urbandekay (18278)
22 May 12
So much for Karma then all the best urban
@GreenMoo (11834)
23 May 12
Maybe it's all gloss on the outside and there's nothing on the inside?
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
22 May 12
Because in the end, life doesn't work out that nicely. If everyone would have a good life by doing good things, then there would be no crime, no hatred, everything would be at peace, there would be no negativity. Because why would you do something awful, and be anything but good if you were going to get punished for it. No one would. Yet, there are going to be people who essentially get away with murder(both in the not literal and the literal sense of the world). Then again, many of those people who do bad things out there, maybe at one time, they tried to go on the right path but life tended to knock them down one two many times. Karma is something that I don't believe it, because if life was that ideal, than the world would be perfect and you'd have to be living in a cave to think that the world is perfect.
• China
22 May 12
Hi luisaR,It sounds you bend to fate and be confused.In other words,whether there are something you can't let it go? If my husband treat me like this,we will go divorce and i will let my lawyer for segmentation of his property.
@surfer222 (1714)
• Indonesia
22 May 12
i'm sorry for what happen to you... why did you still thinking about him and knows his every move? why don't you just forget about him... that way you can move on with your own life. If i were you i probably forget this person completely... i don't care what will happen to him... i better focus on getting a better life. Oh, and i didn't get the point that he joined forces to humiliate you... i mean, what does join the forces have to do with humiliating you (i'm not defending him, i just don't see the relation between joining the force with humiliating you)
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
22 May 12
hi friend, i never understood this so called "karma" ..till now. all i have seen is , the people who do bad to others are always happy and good going..but the people who are God fearing and do good to others are always suffering and suffering and no end to their suffering...so i came to the conclusion ..that i wont believe in karma and all other nonsense...which makes the human being weak and makes us cry, just thinking about our fate and all...
• Philippines
22 May 12
You have my sympathy there ma'am, yes they get what they want but someday when their life are countless, our lord in heaven will know where to put them. Don't worry, just wait for the bad karma come to them and God have a plan for them in the future for what they are doing to you.