how to tell something to stubborn people.
By cindytandry
@cindytandry (69)
May 24, 2012 9:14am CST
i have a friend who is very stubborn i think, he is not rich, but he feel shy for not being a rich people because he think rich people have some kind of proud things to be proud of, style and prestige, the problem is, he is not rich, and he try the worst thing i've ever heard and know for following the lifestyle of rich people, i think it's not neccessary when you don't have that ability ,as long as we can do our best to be a good and hardworking person and be true of ourselves, the quality of ourselves is still better i think, but he think different with my opinion. he is our friends and we tried our best to keep telling him the truth but i think he still can't accept the things we're telling him, so mylotter friends, do you guys have some ways to telling stubborn people? what should we do so that he can't realized it? we as his friend just don't want something bad happened to him because if he keep doing it then we believe he'll bring himself to the end somedayy..
2 responses
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
24 May 12
Being a stubborn person myself, there isn't a whole lot you can do. Let him make his mistakes. When he discovers he is wrong he will let you know. Then you have a choice, You can rub it in his face or you can let him off the hook.
@chan2zexy (508)
• Philippines
24 May 12
I think it would be better to 1st make him feel that you still want him as your friend despite his status in life. You can invite him to simple hangouts without having to spend some cash. You can go for walks and talk about anything and everything without having the need to spend so much.
With regards to style, you can invite him to go shopping at cheap bargain stores and still have the good quality of fashion clothes.
It's better to show him by example and not through straightforward words. Do this exercise for a while until he gets used to it. =) It will make him feel relieved that he has true friends around him. =)
