Person's Personality

Nice question! I never thought about this before. But your question has actually made me to think about my actual personality. I definitely agree with the above statement that every man is three men! Every person has his own thoughts about how he is. When we dress up, look in the mirror, we think and make several comments on ourselves about our looks, they may be nice or bad. When we ask someone, "How do I look?", they give their different opinions. Obviously no person has the same thoughts and so they'll find us to be looking different. We might think that we are looking good but the other people around might think the opposite. But who knows that, we are actually looking fabulous! It's the same inside. We might think that we have some kind of character and the others may think that we don't have that character what we think we do. But at the end, even we might be proved to be wrong and even those people. We actually are something different what we never think to be. Umm... You are right, It's really heard to explain! :D But whatever it is, there is surely something that defines us truly, about which we aren't aware of yet! :)

Yes, i agree with that. We had a discussion about this in one of our minor subjects..forgot what it was, but it is true.. i am not sure about who i really am right now. But i do nkow who i want to be.. but it seems like an unreachable dream.

I totally agree with that statement. Who we think we are, how others think of us and how we really behave. Many times, we are not what we think we are and therefore this becomes such a huge problem for some of us. This just reminds me of the devil and angel personality inside us too. A part of us tells us to do something while another side of us tells us to do another. Because there are 3 sides of ourself, it is important that we find out from other how people think we are and then evaluate ourselves from there. Even though the real us is how we really behave, but nothing is more important than how people think of us when we are in the working world or even just when making friends.

Yes, I agree with that. We all present ourselves in certain ways. We give an image of ourselves to people and they form opinions of us by how we relate to them. We think were are one way, and people see us in their way, but neither perceptions may be what we really are. I think I am a nice person. You may think I am unapproachable because I am quiet. In essence I may be a nice person, and unapproachable at times due to insecurities. In truth I may smile at everyone because I am programmed to do so since childhood. I might be scared of getting close to people, and still be a nice person... just a thought.

Think I’ve heard this said a different way. Think it is similar. What do you think? I saw someone in the mirror but it was not me. Certainly we can look at ourselves from different viewpoints to try to understand the real person. Here is another thought maybe not applicable though, aren’t those people we are trying to understand always changing? We only get glimpses.

When we stay with others, for the most time we act what others expect from us, and most of it is not what we really are. When we are alone, we usually do what we actually want to do,especially those we can't do before people. I thik that our really personalities.And sometimes we imagine a better future, amd put ourselves in the perfect position, that's the third personality.