Tricky situation wih young children at home
By Ptrikha_2
@ptrikha_2 (45532)
India
May 28, 2012 10:39am CST
I have a very tricky situation at home. My 2 and a half year old daughter is getting very stubborn every day, and she is increasingly targetting her younger sister, who is barely 4 months old. We try to be good and nice with her, and try to tell her not to do so, but she still does not listen. Sometimes, we have to prevent when she tries to slaps or hit her younger sister without any reason. Sometimes, she even starts crying too much. we have tried many a formula, even followed a doctor's advise. However, things do not seem to improve. WHat could be done in such a case? Any tips?
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3 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
This must be hard for you and to your wife. Anyway I think you daughter just needed more attention from both of you as a parent. You need to understand that some changes came up to her life. She used to be only one pampered and getting more attention from you but know she is only getting half. This is my piece of advice be patient and understand your daughter, also try to go out with her without her little sister. COntinue your bonding like before and make her feel not left alone so that she will reliazed that she is still part of the family. You can also give her some chores in talking care of her younger sister but of course with proper guidance because she might her sister again. Hope one of these days your daughter attitudes towards to her sister will improve.
@pvuppal (137)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I agree with the solutions that your 2 and a half year old daughter is getting jealous. What I do is when my daughter is eating, I ask her to feed her daughter and she feels good that she is able to help her mommy out. Also, when I change her, I ask her to get a diaper, and help with the wipes. She loves to do this and it brings them closer. Also, when the younger one is sleeping, spend more time with your daughter because it shows her that you love her too.
