I really missed the fun of having new friends.
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
May 31, 2012 1:02am CST
A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters,
Well, I truly missed the fun of having too many friends. Whereas, I really missed those friends whom I shared my precious moments before. And apparently, we cannot do the same now since they already have their own sets of families, as almost all of them are married and living afar. As a result, we have lost our communication although some of them are still communicating but distance cannot bring us closer. And now, I am working out to have and gain more friends again. Actually, I have sent a letter to one of my friends that I met virtually but, until now, she did not have her response. Thinking, maybe she don't want to get too close even in an online world. Thus, there are times, I am thinking, they just want to have online friends but does not a for life friends.
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6 responses
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Hello aira! It's good to still communicate with those old fiends you got and always fun to have new friends as well. No matter where they are, if we really valued them we will find time to connect with them again. And yes, even if miles apart, there are computers now and internet has brought us closer to one another. One of which is mylot. We can gain friends whom we can trust even though we don't meet them personally. You can just feel it in your heart.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
31 May 12
hi there annavi23,
absolutely, real friendship can really be feel inside the heart. and i am thankful that i almost on my way in finding that true friend.
@cloud31 (5808)
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31 May 12
Hello Sheila,
Maybe its just happened that your friend is busy with her family and got no time to answer back your letter ,moreover yet there are people we meet online and become our friends too.Friendship cannot just happened in a glimpse it has to get developed to get close with each other.
Building up friendship need sometimes to make it real,maybe you will find a real friendship.Try to send them a words whenever you are free and let them know you care about them and so they are to you..Some online friends can be a real friend too.
Take care!
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
31 May 12
Hi Cloud31,
You have a point on there. Perhaps, they are too busy with their own errands.
Anyhow, I am just looking forward that a better friendship will happen even in an online world, if I may say, in a virtual world. That, despite its virtual, an actual friendship will do happen.
Cheers.
@annavi23 (6633)
• Philippines
31 May 12
yes, aira and cloudy, friends may be gained even in virtual world but not all them we can see who's real or fake ones. you'll just know it when you feel it. sometimes, we find true friends when we can talk from deep in our hearts. the ones we see everyday may not be the ones we can be able to talk from the heart...isn't it?
@GemmaR (8517)
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31 May 12
It is always such a shame in life when we lose contact with our friends. But, it is a sad fact that things happen when our priorities change in life. I have a lot of friends who have got married and had children, and as soon as they did that it's just like they don't want to know anymore as if you're not good enough for them. I think that it is important that you make a vow with your friends to meet up with them at least once per year, as I think that if you stop meeting up this often you will end up drifting apart completely.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
1 Jun 12
I and my friends, too. We live far from each others after we got married. We're busy to care private family, so, we don't have much time to communicate. I sometimes feel sad. It's life. We can't do anything to prevent that. We can improve by calls or messages. I think so!
@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
31 May 12
I agree with you as well. I miss my friends. I too am in search of sincere friends. I have been looking through snail mail sites to meet new people. It is good for us to branch out.
@renzonation (254)
• Philippines
4 Jun 12
yeah youre right i missed the fact that my friends and i will miss each other because of a long distance relationship as a friend perhaps you want to have a new friends like them..
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
4 Jun 12
yes of course, i am aiming to have one like them but, persons are different to each other. as a result, i am not really looking same as them since different persons thus have different personalities.
