its so hard to see your loved ones in pain!
By swapmind
@swapmind (355)
Australia
June 2, 2012 6:16pm CST
sometimes we are so helpless that we have to see our loved ones in pain,Gosh this situation is so hard to tackle.Few hours ago i shared a word with my sister,who has always been a pampered little doll of our family but she is all unhappy after marriage as her husband is all irresponsible and careless man,his short-temper make the things all worse.I am feeling so bad about her and her statement-"I am unhappy with the marriage and will be unhappy if i walkout"are troubling me for hours.
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7 responses
@tkonlinevn (6383)
• Vietnam
5 Jun 12
I'm in the same status. My younger sister is not happy in marriage. So, I and my family must help her frequently. We must solve her family's problem. I fee tired. I don't know why my sister always trouble in life??? :(
@tkonlinevn (6383)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
Thank you very much. I always believe that God is always beside me and my family. We're will be happy!
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
3 Jun 12
It is very true. We only want to see our loved ones happy and satisfied in life. But often, this is not the case. Unexpected things happen and we just have to deal with these challenges the best way we can.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
3 Jun 12
That is really the worst, to experience a situation like that, which is a rather no win situation at the very least. Especially to see someone, who feels as if they are trapped, no matter what they do. I do agree, that does really seem to be a haunting and often times statement that would chill most right to the bone. It is a rather troubling statement for sure.
It is just, you want to help in a situation like this but the person seems to be beyond help for some reason. This is a situation that many would feel that it is obvious that they can only work out on their own, not that makes things all that much better. It is a never ending, never changing problem, where everyone really feels trapped in a void of insanity. It is really hard, too hard, and a bad situation all around.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
3 Jun 12
Yep,i feel so.It's really hard for me to see the one i love who is under such painful things.So i will try not make this happen.Otherwise,if this can not be avoided,then i will try my best to comfort and make them feel really better.We have to learn what means share.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Jun 12
Yeah it is definitely hard for us to see our loved ones in pain. We want to take their suffering away and make them feel better. I hope that in some way your sisters situation will improve. Being married does have a lot of hardships but so will her living on her own and trying to support herself. So she will have to make the decision that is best for her life.
@srikanth777ias (326)
• India
3 Jun 12
actually this is a situation faced in every family . the mistake is mainly the marriage . because we have to choose a person after a very long observation an all types of character and attitude. then only we have to select a person . other wise this kind of things would happen. it is a so much trouble to your family and it is not so easy to solve the problem. the best thing to tackle this kind of problem is teaching a lesson to him. beyond that there is no other solution . any way be well planed and be courage and dare while handling this further . do not felt sad and go further and solve this
@PoppaDave (438)
• United States
3 Jun 12
She must find her middle ground then, realize why she would be unhappy to leave and weigh it verses the pity of staying. If it is something personal in the marriage, maybe she needs to see a marriage counselor with her husband or legally seperate to get a space to test her true feelings. All the same, she needs help. I pray for your Sister, it seems to trouble you. God be with you for comfort and to sooth your worries!
