is human life is wonderful

India
June 3, 2012 3:12am CST
yes i am asking right now, last night i had a long discussion regarding this topic with my friends and correct solution is not there . i have said that life is wonderful only if we have limited problems and more money . but my friends does not agree with my view . they are telling that with out problems life cannot be happy because with mistakes only we would learn to correct the things properly and then it makes us happy . and when comes under money matter they are telling that money only a part that make us to get our wanted things and not make us happy . finally they concluded that wonderful life is nothing but making others happy and helping others with out expecting any thing from them
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
3 Jun 12
srikanth your aim is to become an IAS. nice. Life is wonderful. Creating a life -- a man and a woman are required. it cannot be assured that they will create such and such a type of human being. what comes out is Gods creation and thereafter depends upon the way the child is brought up. True making others happy is the wonderful aspect of human living. Now I feel happy in posting this response in your thinking I am making myself and yourself happy. Sometime when you think deeply life in the end is Zero. We all come and go - we do not bring any thing with us and we do not take anything with us in the end. Still within the few years we are here in this world we see a lot of happy moments, sad moments, happy news, sad news, likeable experiences and hated experiences, hot days, cold days, medium days-- days on which you earn more and days on which you spend more.... we can write a book on it provided a publisher is ready to publish.
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• India
3 Jun 12
first of all i am very happy to receive your response . yes i am ready for it. i will surely helpful to you
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
4 Jun 12
Life is more wonderful when i have much more money now, it is that i lack only...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
5 Jun 12
No, i don't...if i have much more money, i wont get stress because of money anymore and i have more time to do many things else. I control money so that i am not afraid that money will control me back...
• India
4 Jun 12
with money alone their is no wonderful life . life become wonderful only after making others happy . with money we could not satisfy our self and we want to earn more and more and we face stress and make or commit some mistakes . and problems would start
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Jun 12
For me. Life is beautiful, if I can do whatever I want. So far, I can not do anything I want. I had to bury my desires. In fact, I just wanted to do something good, and do not harm others. But, I still, can not do anything I want. So, for me my life is not wonderful, as long as I still go on like this.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
3 Jun 12
indahfth you are not old. Probably you do not earn through regular employment and that makes you feel dependent. Even if you earn you cannot do what you want because we all depend on others--our close people and we have to do as per their liking only. do not feel bad. whatever help you want to do for others do within the available limits and enjoy.
• India
3 Jun 12
yes ravi sir what you have said is correct and i agree with . mainly old or young is based on the body and not to heart . and other thing is what ever we do is mainly according our wish then only we felt happy and we can lead a wonderful life . i think for enjoyment there is no limit
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
4 Jun 12
Everyone has a definition of what life is because that is what you are seeing, thinking and feeling. Sometimes being happy is a choice. You can choose to be happy or choose the other way around. For me, life is beautiful despite all of the problems around me. Those problems make me feel stronger and that makes life colorful. The thing is, you should always learn from the problems. If you are not learning then the problem just recurring making you feel miserable.
• India
4 Jun 12
yes we have to learn something from the problem because it will teach us a lesson . from that we would be alert for the same in the future . i think happiness is not a choice . it would come naturally . we cannot decide it as a choice. if it is choice it is not a real happiness it is just acting . any way all the things are in our hand . so we have to take steps to make others happy and also we would become happy
• Philippines
3 Jun 12
i think your friends are right. We have different perspective of human life. As for me, Life is wonderful sometimes it's not, it vary on what situation i am in.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
3 Jun 12
srikanth: yes. life is wonderful when it suits our thinking. for example after starting the discussion you would have expected response immediately. On receiving it you feel happy and elevated. that is for that moment. afterwards that happiness goes. we expect something more. for example on receiving star on completion you would have felt happy.
• India
3 Jun 12
yes life is wonderful for some time only . for that very short span of time only we are waiting . at that time we would forget all sad which was happened in our life
@mercvict (127)
• India
4 Jun 12
I also vote for your friends. No one's life is a bed of roses, even rose has got thrones. There will be problems in everyone's life but once when you overcome it, you can see a beautiful life ahead; and greedy for money will take away all the happiness from you. Earn, save little money and help others also. You will be always happy and God will bless your life with so many good things.
• India
4 Jun 12
helping nature is always associated with the happiness. that is making our self happy is a limited thing . and making others happy is a great thing . because real happiness is under the sharing nature . if there is no one to share our happiness means our life is not happy .
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Jun 12
I think life is wonderful if you feel it that way. So one moment we will feel it that way, next moment we won't. For some people it's easy to see life most of the time that way (character?) to others life is too hard. Fact is life, your own life, is a personal thing. You can not speak about human life generally speaking, only about yours. Fact is we do need money for everything now a days. Fact is you can buy everything with money. If money is the only thing that can make human life wonderful I doubt. I also agree with your friends: if you are happy every day you won't notice happiness anymore. You need the opposite to recognize and cherish the other side. There is no good if there is no bad. No richdom if there is no poorness, no good health if there is no sickness, no freedom if there are no rules/being locked up, no goals if there are no lack of goals.
• India
3 Jun 12
wow i was really wonder by seeing your answer . it is really amazing .