My Feelings are Mine

This has happened to me before and there have been times when it has bothered me but I always try to let it slide off of my back. If we let things get to us so easily we will constantly be upset about something. I agree with you, my feelings are mine and mine alone, I do not try to persuade you to feel the way I do nor will I allow you to persuade me. I think that the way our government is going here that they are leaning more and more toward taking our rights away. Sad situation.

Yes, I have rather dealt with situations like this a few times right here and there. In the end, we just got to be what we want to be and do whatever we really need to do right out there. Being judged by people for your actions, your thoughts, your words, and everything else, is just going to be something that rather comes with a territory. In the end, I only feel the need to justify what I am doing is myself and myself rather alone. If people want to judge, then they are going to judge, that is just their opinion and really they are just going to waste precious time in their lives doing so. Just got to be honest with yourself, true to yourself, and if others don't like it, that is really not my problem, is it?

I think we're all guilty of this 'giving unsolicited advice' thing. I guess it's normal for a person to just give it out to someone who starts the conversation. I myself am guilty of it too, often times, when a person starts to tell me something, I feel that I am obligated to share my thoughts to the person. Why? Well, why would a person tell you something if he/she doesn't need your advice in the first place? Often, being tough on the person is not a great way to start or keep the friendship, but there are times when we also feel that the person need to know the truth instead of sugar-coating things to please him/her. Which is why, whenever I don't really want anyone to give me advice about something, I just keep it to myself. That way, there would be lesser arguments and lesser hurt-feelings when an advice isn't taken or when a reaction is negative. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

adforme yes my feelings belong to me, your feeling belong to you, and eeven if I do tell you what my feelings are on a certain subject I do not expect you to tell me I am wrong to feel that way. We each have o ur own minds and brains and we often see some things differently. so remember we may haved defferent feelings on the same sub ject. let us then agree to disagree but not try to take way from you or me our own feelings. they belong to us only.If I chose to change my mind on something an feel about it like y ou dol its vecaujse I realize my feelings were wrong, and change made common sense.I do not want to be like someone else, I want t o be me, the perosn I hatley am, nobody else.I do not judge others and I do not want to be judged wither as usually I am misjudged.

I find worst when I tell about my feelings and thoughts and people don't understand at all. For me misunderstanding is worst than judgement, so I close my heart and mind.

different people will have different opinions my friend.Another fact is we cannot please everybody.We should not bother about others judgement as they have a different way of perceiving and conceiving things and their thought process is never gonna overlap with ours.We have our own way of articulating the things in accordance with our wisdom and experience.Think freely and live with your own terms and conditions else you will loose your identity.

I find it hard to understand what exactly you mean. It sounds to me as if you don't live in a place where you have freedom of speaking/discussion/own opinion since you talk about: taking your freedom away. It did cost me a lot to be me, to fight for me and the worst thing that happened to me was that I was not allowed to be who I am. So I left and build a new life. I payed very high prices for that and it will not be easy for me to "shut up" now. It's not that I will never keep my mouth shut or keep my thoughts/opinion for me but if someone is asking I am not going to tell lies just to stay safe. It's not the person I am.