She had a wrong decision.

Vietnam
June 4, 2012 11:21pm CST
Before, she lived with a man in the same room as as husband and wife. Then, they parted. She always worried about the time she lived with the man. She doesn't dare to love any other men. Because she thinks that they won't accept her old story. She got married her present husband only because he accepted her past. She didn't love him. Now, her family is not happy, even they had a great son. She said that she had a wrong decision. I think so. I wish she loved herself much more!
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6 responses
6 Jun 12
Marrying someone without love will not work. Your friend is in real trouble but because this situation is the result of her decision, she needs to think carefully before deciding anything again. They have a son now and I can tell that her present husband love her so much for he accepted her past. But from your story I understood that they already parted and now in a hesitant state to love again another man. What a complicated love story. What she need to do is to unite again their family, go back to her husband that accepted her past... In time she will learn to love him just the way the man love her. Love is not meant to be always equal... She found a man that truly love her, that is so rare, she better bring back the man again in her life.
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• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
you're very right. she should think carefully before she has any decisions at present. Her present husband really love her. But I think that she doesn't understand this.
• United States
5 Jun 12
People need to do what makes them happy in life or they are just making things hard for themselves... But sometimes they settle and it is something that they should not have to do but feel like they need to. It is sad!!! Be happy and live each day like it is your last and love like you never loved before!!!!
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• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
What a pity that she didn't think about that. She thought she needs to get married and all everything will be well.
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
5 Jun 12
I think 'she' has made 3 times mistakes - first and second failed marriage and having a child with her second husband. I don't know why she was so hurry to remarry and have a child by knowing she doesn't love her second husband. I also wonder if she has given a deep thought on all these issues or not. Now she makes her husband, family and the child to suffer......she needs help!
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• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
She lived with the first man without married. So, she scared that other men won't accept her! That's the reason why she chose so hurry.
@Mashnn (4502)
5 Jun 12
Your friend needs some help. She seems to be struggling with so many un resolved issues which is really affecting the way she relates with other people including her husband. She is just not the real self.
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• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
That's right. She has many things to do in order that she can look for the happiness.
@PageTurner (2825)
• United States
5 Jun 12
It is sad to hear of someone who is so unhappy. I hope that this woman would love herself and make some decisions for herself for to care for herself instead of the worrying about what the others to think. Yes, this is tough, but as long as we worry about what the others think, we will not be happy. This is not to say that we are to be totally selfish. But it is okay to be yourself.
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• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
I think so. I think that she should think about herself first. She will make others happy if she's happy. right?
12 Jun 12
may be she hasn't got over with the first guy. confused nature? women tend to be like that. she will have to decide sooner or later. cant keep 2 feet on 2 different boats. tke cre