Who is more important ????

@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
June 5, 2012 8:17pm CST
Yesterday i did chat with my boyfriend after 1 week without chatting because he was too busy with his major project. At that time, i was busy on Mylot too, so that i relied his talks very slowly. Here is our conversation: ....... He: Are you busy now, honey? I: Ya, i am busy a bit with my stuff... He: What is your stuff? I: My social site, Mylot. He: huh?...then who is more important? I: of course...you He: Thank you honey ....I was back to mylot to continue to post my discussions, and 15 seconds later... I: mmm....But mylot is important too He: What? whyyyyyyyyyy? I: I need to work on mylot ...to cash out money this month, i need money for my stuff. He: Sigh ..... If you were in my shoes, what is your answer?
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13 responses
• United States
6 Jun 12
My hubby is more important definately... but my lot is also important but for my hubby I would stop posting to listen or spend time with him
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• United States
6 Jun 12
I completely agree with you.It's more important to spend time with our spouse/partner. But when they are doing other things then we can mylot. I'm hoping to get a lot done tonight on mylot while my husband and daughter are sleeping.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 12
You have one week, do not chat with your boyfriend. You should, cath with your boyfriend first. You can every day in myLot discussions. But, you do not every day, can chat with your boyfriend.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 12
Most importantly, you can divide your time well.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
Thank you. I will try to spend more time with my bf when he is free...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
ya, you are right. But I often try to complete my things first and then go to do another thing. I was writing my discussion so that i wanted to complete it first and then talk with him...
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Jun 12
For me it would be my relationship. But we need money in order to pay for things so I mylot when he is busy taking care of his activities. I enjoy my time on mylot. I'm just hoping that sometime soon I will find something that pays more.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
In fact i agree with you too. he is more important and i should spend more time with him when he has free time. But he was so busy for 1 week and no talk with me, that's why i make that talk...but i did talk him that it was just a joke and via that joke, i want him spending more time with me too.
@averygirl72 (37726)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
The persons we love are the most important part of our lives. Just tell him your joking and assure him that he really is more important. MyLot can help you earn money, this is a fact. But MyLot couldn't give you the attention and affection your boyfriend can.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
hihi, you are right...I told him that it was a joke and he is happy back... I often make "noisy talk" like that with him...but sometime he still be mad with it.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
For me, the answer is BOTH. I think you did tell him the right thing. He is important to you and thus myLot. So, he shouldn't get jealous with that. Atleast you were honest with him.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
Ya, i was honest to him...and he replied me...Sigh..... Sometime he need to be patient to wait me complete my post on mylot too, it is what i did when he was busy with his stuff...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
hihihi, maybe...
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
hahhaha maybe he was just teasing you.. lol
• United States
6 Jun 12
Well in that matter..i think if he really wanted to talk to you, I would have him join mylot to see how much fun it is and add to the funding that you need. The YOU will know whats more important. That way, unless your post are confidential, you can both have discussions together. just a thought!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
Ya, i know he wants to talk to me, but that time i was busy with mylot...Sometime when i talk with him, he was busy with his stuff too. All my posts are in here and all you guys can read it, so that i have nothing to hide with him also. My i know he is not interested with it yet, so that i haven't shown him mylot yet. I will show to him later...and let's see he likes mylot or not.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
9 Jun 12
Ya, i hope he like mylot also, then he could understand why i did say like that...
• United States
8 Jun 12
oh ok. well once he sees how much fun it is, he will see why you are on here so much! Good Luck!
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
good day ryanong, upon reading what you have posted above, honestly, if your boyfriends understands you, he will not asked that question to you. hence, it is not appropriate to compare the task from mylot to your relationship. thus, it has different applications. your relationship motivates you to do everyday task and the task that you do at mylot motivates you to earn. so as these two goes on a different way and incomparable. in this regard, your boyfriend should not asked that silly question from you.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
Hi, Thank you for your concerning. In fact my bf doesn't know i am busy on mylot, he knows i use a computer only. He also didn't know what is mylot at all...However i am ok with his question,,...
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
6 Jun 12
hi ryanong, my answer would have been the exact answer as yours..."he is imporant but at the moment this is also important.' what man don't want his woman to make money???,,,,,lol
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
hihi, he is jealous, i think, since i ignore him because of mylot...
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
Hmm. I think your bf is more important. It is because mylot's gonna be there as always. You could always spend your time with it as long as you want.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
7 Jun 12
ya, i agree. he is more important...i will try to spend more time with him when he is free. Thank you so much for your advice.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
6 Jun 12
For me, I think they both important, it just you need to manage your time between boyfriend and myLot. Your boyfriend is important because you love him and loves you back and myLot you love doing it because it pays you back and gives some benefits. There is no reason to choose among them for who is more important boyfriend or myLot the thing is you should only need to know how to balance it. Actually my husband too before got jealous because I spend more time in mylot than to him, but know I only do myLot when he is sleeping or out for work. Good luck
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
He is important but i love mylot too and i love spending my time in here. hihihi, I agree with you too. We should know to balance both, spending time with bf/husband and mylot...But sometime, when we are really busy on mylot, we may forget them aslo.. I can't do like you, if he sleeps, i sleep too, i can't work on mylot when seeing someone sleeping.
• India
6 Jun 12
hmmm... i think both the them are important......but if i would have been on his place i would have had the same reaction as he did...i think it is ok to do mylot whenever you want but if he is sparing time for you then you should also do te same and spare some time for him.....you have to manage both the things as both of them are important for you.....:D
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
Ya, you are right...i have to manage both...however i will spend more time with him today...since i am quite lazy to post my discussions on mylot.
@Erickie (20)
6 Jun 12
Both r important bt cash z needed 2 keep both of u going.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
hihih, in fact..he is more important but that time i was still busy with posting my discussions so that i told him like that...I have a habit...I should complete that i am doing and then go to do next thing. Sometime, when i am angry then he asks me, do i miss him, i say No, even though i did miss him a lots..
6 Jun 12
Hi ryanong,if i were in your shoes,i would tell him that i love him more than mylot,money is important,but i think as your boyfriend,he also is important too,you should spend more time with him,you can share your feelings with him,he will understand you if he love you,hope you happy forever.=)
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Jun 12
hix, 1 week he didn't talk with me then i spent more time on mylot. I can't stop doing something that i haven't completed yet so that i have to complete it first. But you are right, next time i will tell him that he is more important..then he will be happy with it.