very difficult to trust others...

@masruri (111)
Indonesia
June 8, 2012 1:14am CST
very difficult to trust others . also difficult for others to believe in us. Hope we get the best friend,true friend for us
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11 responses
• India
8 Jun 12
Why? You didn't find a true friend?? Surely you'll be trustworthy if you are sincere and pure in your heart and behavior at the same time cunning enough to find sycophants and others who will want to ruin your goodness. Be with good people as only they will see the world rightly.
@masruri (111)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
Nope, i have a lot of friend... But,, unfortunately one of my best friend betrayed me... is very Very annoying..
• India
8 Jun 12
that is your fault you choose a wrong person for friendship,friendship my friend..
• India
8 Jun 12
You will have to be cunning to distinguish good and bad people... sometimes be selfish in your ways fro sometime... you'll realize who is good...
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
We don't just trust others in a few days after we have been friends with them. It takes time and good discernment to fully trust people.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 Jun 12
Sad, but some people can really betray us when their caught in a situation, where they have to save themselves.
@masruri (111)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
Yup... it takes time to trust people.. But it's not applicable in my case.. I know him for a long time ago.. more than 3 years. But suddenly... he betraye me..
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
Best friend is like looking for a right girl or the true love that you will count on and trust. It is really hard to trust someone so you must be aware of the friends you have. The first lesson that you learn from the past is your stepping stone to have a good one. Don't be a in a rush someday you will find true friends just be careful this time.
@tkonlinevn (6423)
• Vietnam
12 Jun 12
I believe that we still believe in others. We shouldn't think negatively. Life is beautiful :)
• India
8 Jun 12
actually we cant trust any one easily or yes that is also true that not any one is trusting on us easily or why they will trust on us for that we should make our repotation like.people should not know us by our name or our father name,people should know us by our work than you watch how easily they will trust on us.thanks
@masruri (111)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
Agree with you knowledge... We must show " Who we are " or "It's Me my friend, a good person, a honest people "?
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
I find this discussion very odd for I myself can easily trust a person. :) I developed this tendency for I do trust myself quite well, I also believe in my capabilities, strengths and weaknesses. You cannot give any trust or belief to other people if you yourself do not have it. Just learn how to believe in yourself and all those best/true friends will just emerge right in front of you.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
It is very difficult to trust others. but, more difficult to get the trust of others.
@averygirl72 (37763)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Yes, it's very difficult to trust people now. Even our closest friends can cause our grieve. I learned that only my family can stand for me. Not that I don't trust all people anymore, but I prefer to trust my family more.
@else22 (4317)
• India
8 Jun 12
Agree 101%.It is indeed very difficult to trust others.Actually it is difficult to find trustworthy persons.Even your kith and kin may take you for a ride.You wish to get best friends for you.How and where would you find them? I have been cheated by my brothers and their children.I thought over the problem and churned out a policy for myself.I decided to be honest and true to everyone else who come in my contact,but at the same time I must remain cautious and vigilant.I would not blindly trust them noe would I give them any chance to take any undue advantage from me.May be this policy would be helpful for me to get trustworthy friends at last.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Yes its difficult to trust others especially those pretentious person who only want to get your trust just to take advantage to you. Be careful in choosing your friends and take some time to know them better before you give your full trust. Always keep distance and set boundaries in to your friend for your own safety. I know you will find a good friend someday, who always be there for you no matter what and never betray you. :)
@tatsumaki (189)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 12
We can't suddenly trust peoples... No ones know what's others thought... Even if you've been friends for years sometimes you'll get betrayed...