Now I can see why her husband went with her friend

@joystick (1678)
June 10, 2012 2:27am CST
A few months ago I started a discussion about a friends husband going off with her best friend.Well to be honest after seeing that the wife, never wants to stay at home to spend time with him, like married people do, or to be there being a family with the children and her husband, or even to cook or clean for him, plus always have people in and out the house, can you blame him looking else where, when the poor man has been trying to tell her for a few years to buck her ideas up.When the husband was confronted by his wife about what had happened, he did not deny it had taken place with her friend, but said it was her friend that wanted him to leave his wife, he told her that things would have to change and she agreed that she would start to do the house work and not spend all hours away from the house or the children and would be there all the time for him, also not keep having people in sitting down with their children, or people out staying their welcome.Well she will never change and I am sure that he will not either.He was going to move in with the wives friend, when he went with her the last time.Now he allowed to smoke drugs at a relations house while the children are there as well, all because he had an affair.The husband has been bad mouthing his wife at work, as well to the wives brother, also laughing behind the wives back, saying if he done it again, his wife would not kick him out.
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• United States
11 Jun 12
It sounds like she doesn;t like spending time with him. So he found someone who does. She doesn't want to cook and clean and he Wants her to. Did these two ever talk Before marriage? And now the kids are in the middle. It is so sad.
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• United States
28 Jun 12
I too feel really bad for the kids. It's sadder when they are surrounded by this type of situation and the hostility that each one has towards the other. I hope that the parents will decide what they are going to do and stick with it and not add any more stress to the children.
@blue65packer (11831)
• United States
11 Jun 12
Why the heck don't one of them file for divorce if they don't like the way the marriage has gone? They would be better off divorced! Are they just staying married to bash each other? I don't think they are still together for the kids! What a fricky mess this is! Sounds like this is not going to end for any time soon! Sounds like the husband is getting his revenge on his wife for what she did to him! They both sound messed up!
• United States
28 Jun 12
I completely agree with you. Things have become really bad in this relationship. It is sad that things have turned out that way. It really is an awful situation. Hopefully they will make a decision and not add any stress for the kids.
@zip12ph (179)
• Philippines
10 Jun 12
Hi, basing on your story, i think the husband has all the reason for himself and i don't blame him, why? In the first place, we engage in relationship to have companions to be with till we die, from the start, its the wife who push his husband to look for someone who would be present every time he needs company especially in taking care of their kids, i myself will do the same thing if i'm in this kind of situation. As what they say, respect begets respect. so love begets love.
• United States
28 Jun 12
It is sad that this has happened in this relationship. The wife not being there for her husband and taking care of him like she should as a wife did cause him to look elsewhere. Still there is no excuse for cheating. It is sad that this has happened.I hope that they can handle what needs to be taken care of without adding extra stress to the children.
• United States
10 Jun 12
I dont care what the wife was not cooking or cleaning. He is a loser and she should let him go. Sje may be slack but he is a pig. She deserbes a new friend and man.
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