rebellious children.. who do you think to be blame??

I don't think anyone is to blame. There have been rebellious children, teenagers especially since the beginning of time. It's natural for teen to want their independence, to break away from their parents, test the rules and limits and find themselves. It's part of growing up and becoming independent, responsible adults. It's a stage that every person goes through. To what degree a person experiences rebellion varies with each person and their circumstances.

Hello mylotter, good question you have. For me it is the parents whom to be blamed for becoming rebellious of their child/children. We parents not only taking care of the children, giving what they need, we should also show or express our love to them. By what? By being a good example of a good parents. First never quarrel in front of your children, avoid telling bad words. Never do things that is not good in front of them, because we knew children idolized their parents. So if parents do things bad, child may adapt that doing bad. Always talk to our children or schedule a bonding moment to them. Because if both parents are busy with their work, tend to forget their children. Children will look for some attention outside home.

I will say parents are to be blamed for their rebellious teenagers, the responsibility of providing the right path and the correct guidance on these children are solely belong to their parents, and no one else. If the parent doesn't take any action to right the wrong of their teenagers, and did not play an active role in their children life during parenthood, then they have no business of bringing them into this world, it is always easier to blame it all on everyone and everything around you on the bad influence your children get from society, but ultimately, it is the rights of parent to teach and discipline their children, not an outsider if the children begin to show signs of rebellion against parent and authority. Of course parent can always prevent their children from hanging around with the wrong crowd and make friend with persons with dubious characters, they just have to pay attention and get involve in their children activity to make that happen.

nobody should be blame.. the responsibilities of both parent and children are equal. A parent is to ensure proper education, teaching and guidance for the child to learn the right and wrong, the child on the other hand, should be able to differentiate the right and wrong. It's an chicken and egg thing when come to child and parenting matters..

I think parents have a huge impact on the education of children, but we can not always be wrong to blame the child's behavior rodzicow.Zdaza that despite our efforts, despite the time we devote to our kids, and so they choose another path, this zla.A Sometimes yes, with as a parent we do not just cope with child rearing, especially now in a world full of electronics, the Internet.

The whole family is to blame.If kids have a problem they should talk to their parents about it,and parents should spent time to know whats happening in their child's life, before situation gets so bad that the child feels tha,the only way out, is to run away from home.

Hi Karstine, I think it would be hard to blame any one factor on why a child becomes rebellious. In some cases, it could be the parents but I think it'd be a stretch to say it is always the parents. I raised 4 girls and they ALL experienced a bit of rebellion in their teen years which I think is pretty normal. One was ridiculously rebellious. I do think that as parents, it is important to instill strong moral values in them when they are very young. It may not seem it but those values do stick and they will fall back on them later on when they get beyond the teen years.