i wrote these discussions to take away my anger

I agree. Posting at Mylot, makes my mind wander from being angry , to being entertained. Thus, taking away my anger little by little as i posted.

Mylot is really a great place where we can exchange our ideas and share our happiness, anger, grief and joy.

Correct Chang!

hi jugsjugs and simplyD yes I sure do agree. we find a shoulder to c ry on, someone to listen to us, and I do it too when I get stressed out. I also feel better when I have ranted about something and so often we get help and advice that does help us. hurray for mylot

Yes, hatley, Hurray for Mylot!

That's true , jugsjugs. Mylot has become an escape to most of us. It helps us alleviate whatever bad feelings we may be having. After having been responding or starting a discussion or even a rant, we feel that a part of the hurt is taken away.

Yes, winterose. I know that in the daily scripture, i would somehow find some comforting words.

I totally agree with you Jaiho. We do mellow as we grow older. And we know how to lessen our anger when it attacks us. I read the scripture for today because i know i will find comforting words. And i am right.

Now that would make him feel guilty. I wish my wife is like that but that's wishful thinking that's why I don't get drunk since I know i can't rely on her to do things like what you just did to your hubby, maybe just the rant. That's why when she and the kids are on vacation, i party like crazy to make up for lost time

Actually ybong, for the almost 22 years of our marriage, there wasn't any time, where i have to attend to my husband when when he comes home drunk. That's because , when he arrives i am already sleeping and he is seldom so drunk. But when he comes home so drunk and he knows i am already asleep, he will not come into our bedroom, until he has vomited at the bathroom, and have cleansed himself. Besides, he doesn't want to wake me up, so i won't know, what time did he arrive. He will just go into the bedroom, when he is done. Thus, it's in the next morning that i would attend to him. Your wife is lucky that you avoid getting drunk, ybong. SO, you feel like a bird freed from its cage when she and the kids are out.

You made me laugh with that Ybong. He is snoring so i can't do that and i haven't done that ever. He isn't always that drunk, except last night, because i saw the remnants of his vomit in the toilet bowl. At any rate, i gave him coffee when he awakened. And i attended to his breakfast.

Yes my friend, Mylot helps us in airing out what we feel. It helps us in alleviating whatever bad feelings we may have just felt. I am happy, we have Mylot.

Yes, my friend, and to that i totally agree!

Actually my friend i have already ranted on him, when he arrived drunk. Not that i am preventing him from drinking, but for the past weeks he has already drank more than 3x. He was explaining while i rant but i didn't listen. After hearing my rants , he went to sleep. So i typed my discussions until i calmed down.

SO chicgale, we can say that we have found an avenue for us to express our feelings.

True! :-)

I agree liltan, that it is but natural for men to drink. But when it becomes too often it might give him problems in his health. And also backriding in the motorcycle of his staff , when both of them are tipsy or drunk is very dangerous. That's why i already got angry. But before he left for work at 9am, we are already okay. I thank God for helping me take away my anger, as well as Mylot for giving me an avenue to express what i felt.