luckiest day of my life !!!!
By neerruu
@neerruu (134)
India
June 24, 2012 2:45pm CST
i just got off the phone after having a long chat with a close friend. actually i had a crush on one of her girlfriend and now she is ready to bring her for a movie.it means she is atleast interested in becoming friends.
i don't even have a single friend like her ,lookswise.
now ladies and all those people who have been successful with women... some tips ??
i am feeling insanely excited and nervous too...
anything will work just give me something
we are meeting tomorrow in evening around 6 and i will wear a beatles t-shirt and jeans.it's fine right ?? play cool and be casual :p
share any success stories similar to these so i can atleast memorize the good stuff....i don't want to mess it up....
cheers and thank you,
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8 responses
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
25 Jun 12
Ah, you will go to date tomorrow. I am happy for you too. I hope both you guys will fall in love ...then it is your luckiest day,....and then one day she and you do married, it is your luckiest day more...and one day you have a baby and become a father...then it is your luckiest day again...
@neerruu (134)
• India
27 Jun 12
surprisingly it was decent but i am still not sure if she is still interested or not.
so in the end out of desperation i asked her if she wants to go out for coffee sometimes. she agreed . but when i asked her number she told me that her phone is at a service station. i can still get her number through my friend but i don't want to do that.so i have no other choice but to wait for a call or text.
thank you,
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
24 Jun 12
Okay, judging from the picture she looks like she will be shy. I would do my best to put her at ease, make the date something fun, and be sure to keep your end of the conversation up. Don't be over talkative, but try to get her to engage with you. Don't feel to nervous if she seems up tight at first, just move back and give her some space so she can get comfortable. Is it going to be just the three of you, or is your friend bringing a date?
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
25 Jun 12
No. You need someone to entertain your friend, otherwise they will do that girls stick together thing, and you'll be left like the 3rd wheel. You need a wing man you can trust.
@neerruu (134)
• India
25 Jun 12
that's the main problem my mind stops working when i am nervous.i'll try my best to to cheer her up.but still i can't promise of not getting too nervous.
most of the girls i have dated told me that i am a shy kind of guy....
omg what the hell , i always try not to be nervous but it always happen.
by the way thanks for the tip
cheers and thank you,
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
25 Jun 12
Perhaps there will be a new romance headed your way. If this young lady is interested, just try being yourself with her. That will hld her interest more than you trying to be someone that you are not. I hope it all works well for you. So just take a deep breath and relax and show her the kind of person you re inside and out.@neerruu (134)
• India
25 Jun 12
oh being myself i don't know.
i am not kind of a gentle person, i'll hold my 'myself' for some other time.
i don't want to make her think that i am jerk. you know i have a very bad habit of making fun of people around me. that's a no no on first meet right ??
cheers and thank you,
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
25 Jun 12
She is beautiful but she does look a little shy. =) I just hope that you can be yourself and open up a little bit toward her. I think a guy being shy is cute but not so shy where it's like pulling teeth to talk to them.
Jokes are usually good because most people like to laugh. I am an affectionate woman so I like when a guy puts his arm around me or grabs my hand during a movie, but not all are like that.
I hope it works out great for you. Who knows it could be the start to something amazing! Good luck =)
@carnival (52)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 12
ah... that makes sense now. one thing that i know is try not to be awkward in front of her, when the movie started, pay attention on her facial expression, hold her hand when you think is right, if she dont mind it then thats a plus. thats all i know, good luck!
@mariakelly42 (54)
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27 Jun 12
Well, I think I'm two days late in replying to this post. She's pretty, and she looks down to earth. I agree with the others here, she looks a little shy in the photo. So how was your meet up? I hope it went well.
We ladies would want guys to be themselves most of the time, so you should take that into account as well.
Happy posting!
@mariakelly42 (54)
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27 Jun 12
Oh, I guess I made a mistake then. :)
Well, hope you guys hit it good and you end up getting together in the end. Just be yourself, like I said, and keep your cool!
Cheers~
@katcarneo (1433)
• Philippines
25 Jun 12
Good for you! You seem really happy. Hope the date goes well. Chances are, your friend has already told you crush about how you feel, or at least hinted about it. I am not sure if this works all the time, but my tip is for you not to be too enthusiastic. Cool and casual, as you said. Although for some girls, having a guy so obviously into them is what they like. Which brings me to the point--what's important is for you to get to know her and for her to get to know you. Be your normal self. That is the best way.
@Shazooo (296)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 12
As a girl myself, here are some things of what I think when going out to a movie with a guy: they are awkward ( which is sometimes good cause it shows that you show interest but then again it may show that your not comfortable which is bad cause we want to be comfortable around us), trying to hard ( don't try too hard, it tends to be very obvious. But if the girl is the flirty type, she'll just dismiss as cute and dorky.) overall, just be yourself! We girls don't like you to be a totally different guy then who we know you as... Hope this helps :)
