Will i have a chance? He he he

Philippines
June 27, 2012 12:23am CST
Well, i am a person who is not confident with my appearance. I always feel like i am the ugliest person at school. *sigh* Well, here's the thing, there is this girl i like and i know her quite a bit but she does not even know me. Whenever i look at her, she does not notice and just walks her way. I have been reading about body language and i have noticed that no girl actually likes me. See, i am a loving person, and i treat everyone as a special being but i don't feel treated the same way. So, will i have a chance with girls? He he he. I feel awkward. Well, have a great day!
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16 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Just continue being friendly and kind with everybody, my friend. One of these days, somebody from the girls will notice your kindness, it would be nicer if you can be humorous, because girls like boys who are with a sense of humor.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
Good luck my friend. I hope you can really gain a great sense of humor and will impress a girl so she could be your special friend someday.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Hmm. I see, thanks for the tip. I just downloaded some jokes from the internet. He he he. Maybe in our class, when i get to speak, i'll tell a joke. Probably. Anyway, thanks again and have a great day!
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
Thanks mifriend, he he he. Definitely. :D
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
27 Jun 12
Don't being like that...you may not handsome but not too ugly, right? Man loves to see a beautiful woman but with women being handsome is not priority. I don't care much about a man appearance, i care about his character/behavior. For sure you have a chance ...as long as you are honest with your feeling and with that girl. I used to talk to my bf that if i meet him on the street i never notice to him...because his appearance is not attractive to me much, but his character does...
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Wow, what a great relationship you have with your boyfriend. I'm quite jealous. He he he. Thanks for your comment. I will live up to what you said and be encouraged. Have a great day, say hello to your cool bf for me. He he
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
29 Jun 12
hihi, don't worry about your appearance...I wish you all the best!!!
• Philippines
29 Jun 12
Thanks again Tsk tsk. :D
• United States
28 Jun 12
Ok. First thing , take a deep breath and then let it out. Ok, now you have to walk tall. I mean no sloughing. Then the next thing is hard, really hard. When you pass her , look her in the eye. Then just say hi.If she says hi back, then there is a chance, if she isn't polite enough to even say hello to you , then walk away. You deserve a courteous girl , not someone who is stuck up or conceited. Everyone has beauty. Some it is just on the outside. That type of beauty that fades and is false. And others, like you, have beauty within. A good heart and a respectful man is what you are. Obviously I can't see your picture but I Do know you Are beautiful. The woman for you will see this beauty and respond to it.Just keep being the kind , respectful person you are. Walk tall and look the ladies in the eye when you speak to them. The best opening line is hi, believe it or not! Good Luck.
• United States
2 Jul 12
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
Thank you for your kind encouragement for me. I think it really revitalized myself and am now more confident. Thanks again, i'll try your method. Cheers to a good day! :D
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• Malaysia
27 Jun 12
Hi, I agree with the comments above. I understand how u feel. Handsome or ugly lies in the eyes of beholder. It is subjective. Sometimes the way people treated us made us feel that we are not worth it. It is very important to have a good self esteem. I don't mean overly express self pride. Try to focus on your strength, your good value, and at the meanwhile work on your weakness. No body is perfect, but it is our personality, the way we present ourselves to the world that make us different from others. Remember, be honest and feel food about yourself. Take care =)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 12
Sorry typo, *be honest and feel good about yourself
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
He he he, imagine if that really is food eh? He he. Well, thank you for motivating me. I feel like i can finally get rid of my stinking thinking. Anyway, i hope you have a great day! :D THanks again!
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Jul 12
Girls don't want guys' "love" except as that means you'll give them 'what they need' (food, shelter, money, a ride ). If you're shooting for the same target as they are, they & you will see that your aim will not be accurate until you have a 'help-mate' ... Maybe that's a little too 'settle down and have kids' for you (still a kid yourself?), but the principle is pretty-much the same ... like going to 'the dance' without a dancing-partner, like taking a car up to one of those 'Valentine's Day lookouts' (you know, those cliffs where couples park their cars and 'watch the sunset' ) without someone in the passenger-seat. You just 'don't feel right' in those kinds of situations, because you're not right in those situations! It's like playing a quartet or a duet all by yourself, like driving in the carpool-lane all alone. Unless you're living for someone else, you feel off-balance (because you are off-balance). In this life, we humans are co-captains---'co-' because each of us only half-controls the course of our life. The other half is controlled by 'all the people we serve' (anyone who sees you, whether they 'help you,' 'hinder you' or 'leave you alone'), and --if you set 'the family purpose' as your course--people (specifically girls) are more likely to board your ship and serve as your First Mate.
• Philippines
5 Jul 12
That's a nice way to put it. Thanks for the tip. I will now serve my own ship as co-captain. He he he. Thanks again.! Ahoy Sailors!
@Pegasus72 (1898)
1 Jul 12
I would not go by what you believe to be true. I know one of our family members who is thin and beautiful. She could have anyone, and right now she is dating a heavy set young man, who has made her very happy. Looks are not everything, what is inside is always the most important thing. Keep being you and you never know that girl you are crushing on just might like you too. The worst they can say is No.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
4 Jul 12
Good luck
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
Thanks for your encouraging words. It makes me more confident. I'll take your advice. Thanks! :D
@lampar (7584)
• United States
27 Jun 12
May be she likes your ugliness, so before you come to the conclusion she is against dating an ugly boy, you need to make your approach and see what's the reaction, unless she tell you point blank to back off because she hate an ugly boy, and you are the most ugliest person she ever encounter, then you are out of luck and should recluse yourself out of her sight. Other than that, you shouldn't feel bad about your appearance and look, not every girl place look on a boy at the top priority of her mate/partner/date, some even like to be around the ugliest among boy, the pretty face is only one element out of many a girl will seek from a boy, you could have a surprise if you try to talk to her in school in a proper manner. Go try it and you can thank me later, even if you forget about me after you get to know her, it will be alright for me.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Wow! What a totally different unique kind of perspective. He he he. I like your style thinking optimistic. I am glad to tell you i learned something great from you. He he he, so here am i saying thank you. It encourages me. He he. Have a great day!
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
27 Jun 12
You just have to wait for the right time for the right girl.. :) Every individual is designed to have partner, right? So, maybe yours hasn't come yet. She might taking wrong turn, so she hasn't got to you.. Just wait for her.. :D
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Thanks. I'll try to be patient. Anyway, will i just wait for that someone or, make a move to make that someone? He he he. Just curious.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
27 Jun 12
Well, I think it is not about your appearance that matter. Although the first impression is your face, it won't be matter after you get know a person. Some people have pretty face, but they are such an As*, while some not so good looking person have nice personality. I would rather choose someone I can easily to talk with rather than some arrogant people. So, you will have a chance, definitely.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Thanks, i feel encouraged. I guess i really should start believing in the good things that i can do and show it without being sarcastic and arrogant. Thanks again. :D
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Well, there are some girls who values personality over physical appearance. Jut don't lose hope and be confident always. Don't worry about your looks because that will fade in time but a good personality will be yours forever.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Well said, my friend. Thanks for that encouraging last phrase you said. It really encourages me, have a good day! :D
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
hello halfbloodace... beauty is not the only thing that is important when choosing a boyfriend or a lover or a husband. a brilliant and intelligent mind and a good heart are also very important factors to look for in loved one. what good is beauty if what comes out of his mouth is trash. as you said you are a loving person now its up to you to develop your brain.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
I think that you are actually right about me developing my brain, maybe not logically or maybe not critically, since i think i am both critical and logical, but what i lack is the practice of my brain in the field of socialization and of course self-motivation. Anyway, thanks. :D
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Just believe in yourself and have confidence.Be friendly and sociable.Don't afraid to approach other people as long as you don't do anything wrong to them.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Well, thank you for your tip. I think i really have to be confident in who i am and what i have to be. Thanks again :D
@else22 (4317)
• India
4 Jul 12
One thing that I would like to suggest you is stop thinking how you look.If you think you are looking ugly,you would look uglier.Remember you are what you think you are.Stop worrying what people think about you.Be indifferent to your looks and face the world confidently.People would judge you by your behavior and positive qualities.After all we can't change our looks unless we undergo a plastic surgery.And that is something we can't afford.
• Philippines
5 Jul 12
Thanks. I just realized i really am what i think i am. He he he. Cheers!
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
For me there is no ugly person in this world all of us are beautiful inside and out. I think you should need to learn to love yourself first and be proud for what you can do. They might not see you because you hiding the real you, you need to come out on your comfort zone and establish the yourself. Try to make friends and show to them your unique abilities. have a great day too.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
Thanks for your kind comment. It really encourages me. I think you are right, i should get out of my comfort zone and live my life freely without unnecessary restrictions. He he he. Thanks again! :D
• United States
27 Jun 12
If you project a belief that you are ugly other people will view you as ugly. It's important to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and choose to believe that you are an attractive person. Then others will be attracted to you. This information is based on understanding a universal law called the law of attraction and it all takes place on a metaphysical level. Project loving and respectful beliefs about yourself and you'll attract love and respect from those who experience you.
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
I see. Thank you very much for your view. I will live the law of attraction. Maybe it's time to change my perspective. He he he. Thanks again!
@McCreeper (777)
• United States
27 Jun 12
Don't worry about your appearance (all that much); that personality will get you to places whether you favor it or not. One thing you might have to make sure is that you should act natural. Being nervous or sweating while talking to that special girl likely wouldn't help. Hope the insight helps, and I hope you have a great relationship when you meet that girl. :)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
Thanks alot, i think my confidence just went up. He he he. Yeah i suppose i should not care much about my appearance. Anyway, i hope she would like me for who i am. Have a great day!