Happy Mylotting?

@dansazz (1058)
United States
June 27, 2012 11:24am CST
Just wondering why do a lot of people always add this to the end of all their comments? It is very annoying and it seems arrogant on their part.
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@usemyname (640)
• Philippines
27 Jun 12
I think it's synonymous with happy posting. I don't find people who write happy mylotting annoying and arrogant. For me, it's more of a courtesy.
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@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
I do believe it is meant as such, just rubs me the wrong way.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
27 Jun 12
In the same way that offline we would say 'happy shopping' or 'have a good trip', here we say 'happy Lotting' because we are on myLot and while we are we are myLotting surely? What would you want people to say that would not be 'annoying' for you?
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@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
Would not want a signature of sorts at all. It doesn't seem to be in the right place here at this site.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
27 Jun 12
Oh when I say it, it is not my signature. It is because the conversation has drawn to an end and it just feels right to say it.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
It just seems unnecessary to me.
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
i do not see any arrogance in it.. its just saying, have a great day
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@suni51 (3431)
• India
2 Jul 12
No dansazz- this is not so but only wish you well. They actually have made it a MyLot way of wishing some one well only. Happy MyLotting my friend.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Happy mylotting! feels like they think they are experts, and you are not, it's like they are saying break a leg. I know that I am taking it all wrong, just thought I would express my opinion on the matter. I know that they don't mean to sound arrogant, it's just one of those pet peevs that you can't shake.
@Christoph56 (1504)
• Canada
27 Jun 12
Do you feel the same way when someone ends a conversation with something like, "Have a nice day"? I often just say, "Thanks" at the end of my posts, do you get annoyed by that, too? I mean, I'm thanking the people for just reading to the end of what I wrote, in where what I really want, is for them to respond. Is that annoying and arrogant? Thanks! and, Happy Mylotting! ;)
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
27 Jun 12
Same to you!
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@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yes you are obviously very arrogant, trying to annoy someone, when this site is about more then that.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
And this site isn't about having casual conversations, it's a writing site. Yes you make discussions, Think that people spend their valuable time on here, and they shouldn't be insulted the way you tried to insult me.
@CODYMAC (1356)
• San Diego, California
27 Jun 12
Hello, dansazz. I normally say it only to those who are new. Those who have less than 100 next to their name. the reason is because they are new and I would like them to feel comfortable. For you, since you are well past that, I will end it like this, Have a great day. That is my customary ending.
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• United States
28 Jun 12
I dont know i think they just say it to be friendly.
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• United States
28 Jun 12
You just seemed annoyed about it.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
I know they do. Never said that they didn't.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
29 Jun 12
I am annoyed by it, doesn't mean I don't think they are trying to be friendly.
• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Jun 12
I don't think it is arrogant at all. It is a nice way of saying have fun here. =) I like when they say it, doesn't bother me at all.
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@dansazz (1058)
• United States
27 Jun 12
Yes I know that everyone is just trying to be friendly and wish people luck, it just feels out of place to me. majorly. Maybe after years of being on here I will understand better.
• Philippines
28 Jun 12
I've been here for a long time already...and I always see that "greeting" thing in here from people...and I also...most of the time...end my discussion or comment with that. It just doesn't bug me at all. And I am used to it. But we are all really different so I respect your part. Have a great day...
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yes I agree each of us is different. And maybe one day it will grow on me. But as of now it seems like an unnecessary waste of space.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
28 Jun 12
There is absolutely nothing annoying or arrogant when someone says Happy Mylotting. It is the same as saying Have a Good Day, Have a Great Weekend or whatever. It is a person's way of being friendly and making you feel welcomed. Nothing arrogant about that at all. Perhaps you should ask yourself why it annoys you so much. Have a great day!
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
28 Jun 12
Hmmmm I have read the responses here and I don't see where you have explained that other than to say that you don't know why. Whatever. You are right, everyone has their own opinions here and that's what makes this a great site. We can share different viewpoints and opinions. Life in general would be pretty boring without different points of view, as would mylot.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Because it is unnecessary and makes them look like they are better. Just rubs me the wrong way. Indeed it is a good place. If people don't like your opinion then that's tough on them.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Perhaps I should not because I have already explained that. You have your opinion, and I have mine, just the way it is. I know that is the intention of people when they say that, it is a nice sentiment, just rubs me wrong.
@suni51 (3431)
• India
2 Jul 12
They do it because most of the times while the time is not right this turns out to be not that good while the discussions keep flying off, so people always wish us that our experince of Mylot is a happy affair. happy MyLotting.
@BabyCheetah (1911)
• Australia
28 Jun 12
How does this sound arrogant? If you had a conversation with someone and they ended it with "have a nice day" is this also arrogant? I'm not having a go at you I'm just trying to understand why you think this way. I think it's the same sort of thing. If you are on MyLot you are Mylotting I suppose and they wish you to be happy whilst doing it :D For the record I don't think I have ever said it but I have said "Hi Mylotters" before I think. I don't even remember now :D
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yah, I never stated anything more then that, maybe called some names which was not very nice.
@dansazz (1058)
• United States
28 Jun 12
Yah well I'm sure that they all have the best intentions in mind, and they probably are just too friendly. Just don't know why it bugs me. I defiantly believe it's their right to post though. Free Mylot.
• Australia
28 Jun 12
Well we can't all like everything and that's fair enough. There are some things that just bug me too for no apparent reason so this is just the thing that bugs you that's all :)