Learning from life in general

@Masihi (4413)
Canada
July 4, 2012 9:29pm CST
I thought about putting this under Life but then I decided to put this topic under Me because it really does deals with me. I'm learning so much about myself and how I react to situations, and trying to be as self-aware as I possibly can, and learning about life in general, like social skills, mini-culture (I mean I'm Canadian, but going from a Christian Pentecostal church to a Messianic Jewish synagogue there's a cultural difference), and dealing with my emotions, even learning what triggers various feelings. I have recently gone through a bunch of changes that initially shocked me and hurt me but different situations made me look hard at myself. For example, a Christian couple has blocked me because I posted some really harsh stuff on Facebook like drinking vs tee-totalism that sort of thing and really people don't want to hear about religous arguments, so I've tamed myself down and tried to respect everyone on my facebook. I've since gotten along better since that incident. I know we can'[t please everyone but there are times and places for different things like in the third chapter of Ecclesiasics which basically says there's different seasons for everything. Makes you really think long and hard. I'm also learning that we go through different seasons in our lives, like very hard times, and a few years ago I would've whined and complained to everyone that I know but while I admit I do a little bit of that, I'm able to breathe deep and look at what Life is teaching me. And more often than not, I'm learning some pretty valuable lessons, and various character traits are being honed and pruned. Just like our Messiah Yeshua (our precious Lord Jesus) calls us branches and how the gardener prunes the branches and while it may hurt a bit at first, the branches will grow back stronger and fruitful. Pretty heavy I know but well, that's what I'm noticing in my life. Thanks for reading, I just really wanted to talk about this, and hope it'll bless you readers.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
6 Jul 12
I agree there is a time and place for everything. For example, here on mylot I only talk about my faith if I am asked about it, but on FB, I post things I would never post here, mostly because on FB I am able to block the negative people, I can't do that here. Plus, I think mylot has been really good for me, it has taught me that though I disagree, sometimes I have to let it go. I have friends who I totally disagree with and they know it, but I won't get into a debate with them because it can lead to flaming. I have used this in my personal life as well, because as you know, I am just about on my own where my faith lies, so I have to deal with people who refuse to even consider that everything they have been taught just might be not true.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
6 Jul 12
My post is just a mumble-jumble mess of stuff I can't even make heads or tails of what I said LOL But it discribes me exactly. Sometimes I can handle change, other times I can't, I certainly can't handle rejection and hurts like the place downstairs. But I'm learning not to worry about things. Another thing is that I'm finding a lot of faith stuff which I been taught all these years aren't even in the Bible, just someone's interpretations....so much to think about. I'm going through so much now emotionally.
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• United States
6 Jul 12
You know, I am going through some things as well, mostly the fact that I can't get anyone to help me around here and it doesn't help that the temps have been going into triple digits for days now..:(
• United States
6 Jul 12
Every one is different and comes from different cultures and beliefs. What offends one person doesn't offend another and so on. I make sure I am always aware of what I am saying or posting so i don't offend someone else but sometimes it is hard cause they take things the wrong way
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
6 Jul 12
I'm a peacemaker, so I like to take things in stride. But what really gets my goat is people get so offended because I believe in something else, and even looked at them the wrong way all heck would break loose. To me they're the one that has a problem not me. I wish we can agree to disagree on things, while some people can, though I have to give credit then.