How I wish my wife and I could find a place away from my in-laws...

My heart aches for the two of you. There is nothing worse then living somewhere that you are not wanted. Especially if its living with the in-laws who are not nice. I will pray for you both that something great happens soon that you can both move into a place of your own. I believe your wife should get checked out by a doctor to make sure she is ok. When I hear stories like this I thank God that my in-laws love me as much as I love them. God Bless.

It sounds as though you have been holding out for the "right" place rather than simply getting a place for the two of you. It is one thing to have to return to one's parents for a little while if one is single and childless and is unemployed and struggling. It is an entirely different matter when one is married and expecting that one's parents be okay with having their son-in-law living with them as well. Take whatever is within your means and make your own way. Your in-laws will never respect a son-in-law who is living with them rather than making a home for himself and their daughter.

it is better to go live a one single room then live with your father in law. You are not in a position to wait to find the perfect place.

i know the feeling. in laws can cause so much pressure. it's kind of like something you don't have to deal with in your marriage, but you feel like are forced to. i hope you and your wife get your wish. it is good to know that family is there, but not too close.

I'm sorry you are still in that bad situation. It is hard to believe they (or he) can treat his own daughter that way. I think if they knew they were causing their daughter stress they might give in a little. At least I would hope so! I was lucky with my in-laws, but then I never had to live with them!

I know that you will pass all this problems that you are encoutering now. Just keep on praying and it will help. Also, try to be strong and don't let your wife sees that you are loosing hope already. It is really hard to live with the in-laws, as many experienced this. Good luck and I know you can make it through.

i feel so sad about the situation of yours. it's really not that easy to have in-laws with good communication. but fortunately, i got good in-laws. don't worry, i am sure you will find a better solution for your problem or maybe, FIL will change his mind. good luck and God bless.

dear Martin, I don't know where are all your bros and sisters (not your biological siblings and you know what I mean) We temporarily adopt a family (our bro/sis family) before they lost home. They approach us last week that their landlord wants them out of the rented house because they're not able to pay the rent for 6 months already. If only they've approach us earlier then the problem won't lead to this. Since we don't have enough money to pay for the 6 months rent they are temporarily staying in one room of our church ,till the time the whole congregation raise the money to pay the 6 months rent so they can move back to that place. The landlord keep some of their belongings locked inside the rented house and give us one month to raise the money. Now we're able to pay a few month and hopefully before the end of this month we can provide the remaining balance. Do they know your situation? Or are you hesitant to ask help from them? I feel so frustrated that I cannot help you with your situation my friend...:xx

hi, in having a partner in life of course you should have to be separate to the parents of your wife or even to your parents because it could not avoid that sometimes they will interfere,thats why here in my country moved and got separated to the parents after they get married.

Hi my friend, I know that you are in very difficult situation already but I think it's better that you try find a place for your family before it really gives bad effect to your wife health. Stress leads to so many health problem and I am sure you don't want that to happen to you or any of your family member. Sometimes it's better living In a small place that bring joy than living in a palace that bring pain. :-)

Oh my, that's not an easy situation to be in. It really would be best for new couples to have their own place, even a small place you can rent. But, if that is really not an option, you'd have no choice but to be patient and learn to live with your in-laws. It's not going to be easy, especially that you're the husband. In-laws can be very judgmental and discriminatory. I think the best thing for you to do is to try your best to get things together so you can have your own place the soonest time possible.

Hi friend, sad to hear about this. As you mentioned your wife is having health issues, so her parents don't force you to leave from their place, parents don't have the ability to see the kids sufferings, so they will give some more time to you to find a place. Just search for the right place and go there with your wife. All the best for your house search