Always saying sorry...

The word "sorry" is one of the most overused. It's not about saying it, actually. It's more of how people only mean it for a time and then completely switch their feelings again after forgiveness was given. I believe everyone means when they say the word. It's just many are too weak to really mean it when temptation is knocking on their doors again. It could be that love is weak in them. As it's said, you don't hurt the one you love. So, maybe, there isn't really enough love and more of selfishness in the relationship. Am sorry for the girl and for the rest of the other girls (and boys) who suffer the same fate.

Gee if he is that unstable before the child is born I can't guess how he will be when hte stress of parenting hits. How can she believe anything he says after this? That is the greatest loss when a marriage partner cheats, trust, you never can quite get it back, even years later. Hard times are coming to this marriage, I wish them blessings, they will need it.

I agree with you; however, I believe some people cannot help but cheat. I was engaged to a wonderful man and he cheated on me. I forgave him and we postponed our wedding. I ended up becoming pregnant and he cheated on me while I was 7 months along. I really wanted to try and work things out and so we tried again and he just could not stay faithful. He ended up marrying someone else and he cheated on her also. He isn't a horrible person, we are still friends and we have a daughter together. He just cannot stay committed no matter what. We have talked about his relationships and he has told me he wished we were married and that he screwed up, but he knows he cannot be monogamous. I guess some people cannot change and I truly believe he was sorry for what he did to me. It is hard to be cheated on, but I do think that some people are genuinely sorry.