I have a friend... He he

Philippines
July 13, 2012 3:49am CST
I have a certain friend who i invited at our home. When i try to encourage him to take me to their home as well, he just refuses whatever i say. What do you think he is keeping? I considered some possibilities: 1. Their house is a mess. 2. He has an unruly family or disorganized family. 3. Or he treats me like i'm not a friend. Ha ha. Any thoughts?
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10 responses
@rivakwa (56)
13 Jul 12
yes your possiblities are well thought out,but i also believe such friend should not be taken seriously.A friend who cannot let you know his place,has certain things to hide.Such a person cannot be quaranteed for responsibilities when the need arises. I do not relate with such friends be a male or female
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@512771751 (1096)
• China
16 Jul 12
Maybe his family or his house have something he is ashamed of. Don't be too strange, everyone has his own secret. Just keep your good friendship.
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
13 Jul 12
he may have several reasons that you may not be ready yet to see. but if you are a friend, you have to understand his situation. if he sees that you can understand his situation, he will bring you to his house in no time. between friends, people are happy to share with each other - happiness, problems and situations.
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
13 Jul 12
My question is, why do you feel as though he needs to invite you to his place? Just because you invited him to yours? And just because he refuses to invite you to his house, why do you assume he's hiding something? Could it be just that he doesn't want you in his house? I have few friends whom I consider very close friends & they haven't been to my house in 20 years I've known them... Not inviting them to my house has absolutely nothing to do with our friendship... I don't know, I guess everybody feels differently about this subject... I wouldn't think any less of somebody or think of them as any less of a friend solely based on if I've been to their house or they've been to mine... Just my thoughts...
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• United States
13 Jul 12
True friends are hard to come by these days. Those that you can trust. Does it truly matter if you are able to see his home? Sure I would wonder why not, have you asked why not? Communicate with him. Communication is the most important in all relationships.. I wouldn't worry, just ask, get your answer and enjoy the time you have. Make some great memories to share in the years to come.. Good Day's journey to you.
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• China
13 Jul 12
The concrete problem need a concrete analysis,so I think you should fine the reason from yourself.
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@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
24 Jul 12
I had a friend like that. lol relax. your friend is friend. In my case, my friend had a brother with down syndrome. it's sily to be ashamed of a disease.. but that was aher weakness. you be patient, when your friend is more secure, he will have no more fear or shame.
@shivanisd (387)
• India
13 Jul 12
Maybe one of his family members has something that he is ashamed of.
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@else22 (4317)
• India
13 Jul 12
I can understand his problem.He may have any of the problems you have mentioned here.I know this as I too have been facing the same problem.My family is joint just because the the property has not been partitioned.We have controversies among us.The house we live in is more than 80 years old whereas my friends live in spacious and attractive houses where they have rooms of their own.Their family members are also very friendly.They greet me whenever I visit their families.In contrast,I don't have such facilities.So I too never invite my friends to my house.The only good thing is that they are well aware of my problems. I would like to suggest you to ask your friend to tell you his problem.
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@512771751 (1096)
• China
5 Aug 12
Haha, everything is possible. Maybe there are too many people in his house, or maybe his house is a little mess.