women's expressionism . . .

oh, of course, women always want to hear loving words and compliments from someone they love. many boys are not that expressive and they don't understand why girls are like that, but it is our nature, because personally, i don't want to get confuse by just the actions, i want to hear it. accounting rule says, "never assume, unless other wise stated". sometimes, when my husband would text me and i don't find those magic words at the end of his text, i would felt bad, hehehe and i actually tell him about it. it is very important because it makes us feel good about ourself, it makes us happy and delighted. and that's the nature of girls i think . hearing those words and having it felt are of the same importance, so you have to understand your girlfriend when she would ask you those question, hehehe

Well, there are persons (especially girls) who are constantly needing a sense of security and assurance. As long as she hears it from you, she is assured of herself and her importance in your life. Actually, all women differs. There are girls like your girlfriend who want to reassure themselves most of the time. There are types of girlfriends too who is like you. They are not verbally expressive but they show their love through simple things. If you really love her, tell her that. There will come a time in your relationship when the two of you would evolve into very mature individuals, not needing words and knowing each others' actions as if they are your own.

hi freakamir oh thats easy women are from venus men are from mars. read the book.but fa ce it we women are not female versions of you guys .we have a few differences from you guys. a goodly amount of us want to be assured and re ssuredd that y ou love us as people not as an accessory or a possession but as a warm living loving human woman,It is a big deal to us its one of the differences between men and women.you are for doing and we are for feeling so if you always say a soft little love you she will be putty in your hands,. she wants to hear it you just want to show it and some=where in there the two of you need to meet., maybe say "dear when I do this and that its all for you to show how much I care for you."maybe then she will not be so needy hope it works. it did o n me. lol.