i want to marry,but nobody.
By xx598907296
@xx598907296 (178)
China
July 15, 2012 4:26am CST
i want to marry,but now i havn't have boy friend.my mother say i am too young to marry,but i want somebody accompany me eating,watching TV,sleeping and entertainment.when i eat lonely,i don't know what to eat sometimes.if i am married,i can listen to him.we will have a happy family including our children.marrying will let my life more motivated.marry,marry,marry...where are you,my husband
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13 responses
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
I do not know how old you are right now. If your mom says you are young then I guess you are still young and idealistic as I see in you that you see marriage as a happy and very romantic kind of marriage you are dreaming of.
In reality, it is not that way marriage is all about. Try looking around you and your family first how things are and you would realize that marriage is not all about those cute little things that you like to happen. Although marriage is supposed to be happy partnership it is also about raising family working for it and feeding many needs along the way. It may sound easy but it is not that easy.
I think you should try to finish study first before thinking of marriage or anything.
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@simonelee (2715)
• China
27 Jul 12
Dear, no need to hurry. Marrying is not a solution to your lonesome. It may sound great and ideal but in the long run you'll regret it. If you tie your self to someone because of these reasons you'll probably feel so sorry for your self for coming up this silly idea. Marrying is like marrying a responsibilities. Are you ready for changes? Can you sacrifice everything you have, being free?
@simonelee (2715)
• China
29 Jul 12
Glad you come to realize that marrying is not a fairy tail with a happy ending story. You're young and gorgeous so enjoy life as a single first. Once you're ready physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially then it's time.
@xx598907296 (178)
• China
27 Jul 12
thank you,dear.i have gave up the folish ideas.i have to work hard to make more money and then conside to marry.hope you do everything smoothly.
@garavegeta (963)
• Kochi, India
15 Jul 12
Engagementring,weddingring,suffering
Its official,"you are too young"...and am not too sure , how long this posts going to survive.
@garavegeta (963)
• Kochi, India
15 Jul 12
Sorry,In my country we have a conservative view about marriages.And here once its done,it stays for life.Thats why I answered like that
This happens to a person when he/she is matured enough in his/her eyes,but nobody else think that way.
Do things that gather respect,show the world(your family)that you are bold enough.Otherwise things might get complicated,and support from your family is very important.
After marriage one will be like a caged parrot.All the burden will sit heavily on the head.
A degree is no qualification for being eligible for marriage,nor a hindrance.
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Otherwise all the undergraduates..eh?
This happens to a person when he/she is matured enough in his/her eyes,but nobody else think that way.
Do things that gather respect,show the world(your family)that you are bold enough.Otherwise things might get complicated,and support from your family is very important.
After marriage one will be like a caged parrot.All the burden will sit heavily on the head.
A degree is no qualification for being eligible for marriage,nor a hindrance..
Otherwise all the undergraduates..eh?
@aryaraja (37)
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18 Jul 12
In my view marriage is must for every one. marriage brings very happiness in every body's life. Our life style will changed with our marriage. I am living very happily with my wife and a child. You can marry according to your mother's advice. You had not mentioned your age here. If you are aged more than 18 you can marry as your will and wish. I wish you a very happy married life in future.
@zurichann (235)
• Philippines
16 Dec 12
I understand where you're coming from. I always came to a point in my life that I wanted to get married even if I don't have a boyfriend during the time. I wanted to have someone who will compromise me and whom I can be with always. But things changed when I got pregnant. I realised that it will never be an easy thing. I realised that you can't just get married anyone or any time you want. I decided not to get married with the father of my baby. And now I know that I want to be with always with my present partner but getting married is quite hard for us to do at this moment. As much as we want to get married, even we're already on the legal age, there are still so many factors to consider.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
sounds a bit fun... Hehe when you only talk about being with someone when you maery.. Just like a constant companion. But marriage does not stop that... Right? It meant more than eatin together... It also meant tha you both had to first find food to put to the table... It means reaponsibility...provider... And so on. When you ave children you need to rhink of their future as well and not onl cute they can be... Kids wont be kids forever...
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
I believe that you will in time. I guess the best thing to do now is to enjoy single life because there are things that you can only enjoy when you are single and from experience time alone will be lesser and you will probably also miss being alone when you are married or have a partner. What you are feeling right now is natural. You want to share your time with somebody and I believe it happens to all but I think there are other ways to remedy this. You can always spend more time with family and friends in the mean time, and who knows, you might actually meet the guy you are to marry soon while hanging out with them.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
15 Jul 12
Well, go to date a guy..and see a marriage life will come to you or not...wanting is one thing, doing it is the other thing...I prefer a marriage life also, but i don't hurry up to marry anyone else...i still prefer to be in love and then find out that love will work for marriage life or not...
Just take your time and go to date first...
@else22 (4317)
• India
15 Jul 12
You say you are young.Your mother says you are too young to get married.You are a graduate.Evidently you must be 18 or 19.That means,you can wait.You are at an age when people develop attraction towards opposite gender.I think,this is what is happening with you.Your mother is right.Wait a little and rest assured that your parents would get you married soon.And then you will enjoy a happy married life with your life partner.Marriage is a serous matter.Don't hurry to get married.
@mylzcantor08 (66)
• Philippines
15 Jul 12
i'd like to assume that you really are too young. well, getting married is not as easy as babbling. it entails a very big responsibility that you need to manage for the rest of your lives. it's not only about you and your hubby eating together, it's more than that. what you need right now is a best friend or a boyfriend who could do various activities with you.better if you have many things in common so that you two will surely get along great.
@blythejunior (48)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 12
well you have to wait till the time when your husband is come to you. maybe the person really want to marry you is close to you now. but you have to be patient and not to be hurry. there is a time for everything you want to be true
