Is it wrong for a student to love his teacher?

Daisy In my view it is wrong for a teacher to love his student. The relationship is that of teacher and taught and that should not be mis interpreted or misused. May be young mylot members may have a different view in this regard. good day

Daisy_22 Feelings are not wrong..what is wrong is to act on the feelings inappropriately. A student/teacher relationship does not last forever..the student moves on. Better to wait to take any actions on the feelings and see if the feelings last and if they have true menaing..

Hello Daisy and welcome to myLot. Often a student will have what is called a crush on his or her teacher. I had one on my fifth grade teacher but he never even new it. There isn't a problem with the student having a crush on a teacher but the problems comes when the teacher decided to return that crush and acts inappropriately. Many times it is the teacher taking advantage of the student because of lack of experience by the student. In my country teachers are not allowed to interact with students in this way. They can lose their jobs.

I would say that a responsible adult, if they really love someone, can wait. The certain student should be mature enough to know about potential consequences and wait until she/he leaves school and becomes legal of age. With that being said, I think some of the charges are ridiculous, especially if the student is over 16, because then they are more mature... at least they know whom they wanna date and think about love in a more mature way than like a 13-year-old.

You are giving a glimpse of story of a very famous book "PYGMALION" written by George Bernard Shaw. In this story a girl falls in a love with his teacher. But the teacher refuses her love and convey her to make her relationship pious with him. For better learning the pious relationship is needed as provides concentration mainly on work. There is no room for a student's concentration to fragile when the relationship is only of teaching and learning.

I think it all boils down to the maturity of the child who is in love with the teacher who is older than they are. Children do know how to love but they do not always make the right decision on which is true love for a person they want a relationship with.

we can't blame them,they're just humans and we can't dictate them what's wrong or right..maybe on other people's eyes it's wrong but if they're on the situation they can't say it's a mistake.

Love has no mistake. and It is no difference to love different persons. But the teacher and student, such relationship don't good. Maybe you can hide your love and when you graduate from school, you can love bravely.