Already has 85 percent access to you, but still want more.., what to do next?

Hi friend, how are you? I was surprised to hear that this lady admitted that in her opinion, she already had 85 percent of my time, and she wanted more. Can you imagine that? Apparrantly, she is accustomed to control others- irrespective of the type of friendship/ relationship she has with others. However, despite explaining that being selfish will not auger well for any future interractions with me (or anyone else) she continued with that line of argument. Well, not to worry Vidhyarakash, I did what was necessary, and that action was that I immediately insisted on the 'discipline', by curtaining future access that she would usually recieve from me, to myself!

Chiyosan, how are you? In explaining how that computation came about, the lady stated that she has already had access to 85 percent of my time, and she wants more. Despite her arguments, I reminded her that in life, nobody will be able to get everthing that they want.., and she is no different than anyone else. All those speech was to no avail, as she was prepared to be selfish in her demands of me. Anyway, I like your answer, and I will keep 'my' percentage of myself for me.

Sk66rc, I like your approach to the question asked, and the rationale behind your answer. Indeed, it depends on how access is defined, and how accessibility to each other is exercised in the relationship being experienced between them. I aggree with you that access to each other should come naturally between parnters, expecially if the 'ground rules' that lay the foundation governing the type of relationship is clearly defined; such as, the degree of openness and the level of sharing of ones personal space. I aslso agree that placing demands on each other is not necessarily a good thing to do.., under any circumstances whatsoever. In my question, the lady stated that she has already had 85 percent access to me, and she wants more! Based on her argument, she was referring to the fact that in her opinion, she already had access to my 85 percent of my time, and she wants to get more of it. I showed her emphatically, that she will not get everything she wants in life, and to be selfish in her expressions will not auger well for the future. She reiterated that being a woman, she does not care about my position on the subject, because she wants more of my time, and that's it! Therefore, do you agree with my stance on this matter, whereby I decided to insist on the 'discipline' by resisting the 'selfish' advances of this lady?