More active when being single now...:))

I am indeed happier being single. Time which is so precious to me is everything. I can plan my day as I want, get a lot of work done, indulge myself if I do not feel like working, and go anywhere I want. Don't get me wrong. I like friends around but not always. Writing has made me a loner and I far prefer the benefits of being single. It is actually selfish of me but I cannot help it. I don't attend parties and functions except when it has to do with teaching kids how to enjoy books and reading.

enjoy it! there are good things and bad things about being single. the good are u dont have to worrie about looking good for him. the kinda bad are being intimate. u see if u were hooking up with someone at a club or online then u would have tons of things to worry about. such as is he a nice person? will he hit me? u dont know what kind of person he is. most ppl like to tell u what u want to hear. if they say the right thing then they know they are getting a step closer to their goal. getting inside ur pants or getting mmoney.. if ur married then u have no worries about where his stuff has been! and visa versa. there are a lot more to this than what im saying. i have not been around the corner and back to tell u alllllll the pro's and con's and being in a relationship. i have heard a lot of stuff from other ppl in my dorm from the other girls. they would talk about how he wont pay attention to her. money. he wont give her any$. but now that ur not attached to anyone be prepared for more men to come knocking on ur door! be smart. if ur gonna do 'it' be safe. there are some STD's that are hard to get rid of and some are even hard to detect. play hard to get and confident! be urself.

that's good for you. this is one of the rare times knowing a person is just so okay after a break up. Breaking up is one of the most heart breaking experience for most of us. Of course, if you been trying to get rid of your ex for a long time, chances are it would probably be a relief.just keep going and for now you are free to set your priorities. Take sometime to think things through and of course what matters most now is the fact that both of you should be happy, with or without each other.

It is not always true some time when we get irritate from our relationship then it may work but some time missing some one from your life make you frustration and you may become lazy. In my case some time I stay very active when I stay single but some time I become more active with my partner.

wooow.... the way you told us, it seems like you were just free from the prison. of course when you are single you have so many time that previously you spend with boyfriend to do another fun thing. mylotting is one of them. you can have fun now, ryan! don't be hurry to have a new boyfriend/ girlfriend

Being single and in relationship both have their advantages. But it is good that you feel too much beter and be full of energy. Just do what you like, fighting.

I love being single, I have been single since 2008 and I wouldn't have it any other way. I can do what I want, when I want, go out with who I like, I can be independent, no one to worry about, no compromise! Life is so much better being single. I have been in relationships and I have felt like a bird in a cage, I prefer my own company and I can please myself. Enjoy freedom and enjoy doing what YOU want to do, no restraints. I don't get jealous of my friends in relationships. The world is yours, your life is yours and not to share with anyone but YOU. Enjoy!

Sometimes, relationships just do not work. It sounds like being single is suiting you so much better than being in the relationship you were in. Instead of wasting energy on all of the bad stuff that was going on in that relationship, you are now free to focus your energy on more positive things.

i have a girl friend. only thing she is doing she is wasting my time. every time she wants to talk with me. so i could not focus my work because of her. many times i have to tell lie in order to do my work. so i do not know which is better to spent my time with her or focus my work. still i am thinking being single is better.

Hi friend, you are right, we will be more energetic while we are single and try our maximum to achieve our target. Now i am single(alone) in my room and doing my work without any disturbance , my wife is taking care of my two kids and i am free from their tensions

Being single is good especially when you just got out from a not-so-pleasant relationship. You are free now and don't have to argue with someone for petty things. But I still hope that you'll find the right person for you. Someone that you want to spend the rest of your life without regrets.

If you're relationship is all debating, irritations, blaming and none of the good stuff, or they're too ignorable, then I guess you're right it's far off better to be single. It's nice to know that instead of moping and sulking you're taking this "opportunity" to work hard and concentrate on your set goals. And for someone who's just had a break up, you're far more energetic and lively than most people I know who are also in your situation. That's actually admirable.

I totally agree with you. I am single too and I also enjoy my life right now. I spend more time on study and work. I hope to achive more success in my career. So I need to focus on what I am doing. I can not make it if I were in a relationship.

You're right sir ryanong. Being single is freedom because you don't have to worry with someone else. No one controls your time and no one interrupts with your plans. But being single also has disadvantages. One of them is you're still moving on with your feelings to her 1 week before you are with her. I think there's still love remains and the best way is to just focus on your career.

hi ryanong, I don't know if I should congratulates you or not oh well debating, irritation and blaming etc is just part of every relationship Well it's still your choice if you think you are better now than before then that's good Being positive after what you went through is really a good one happy mylotting

The best thing in being single is that you can do whatever you want now. You have a freedom that is more now than before. You can focus back on things that interest and those things you weren't able to do when you were in a relationship. You have also freedom to look at other girls who are also sexy and single. hehehehe

Same as my case. I am more active when I am single. But the thing is as while being in relation though we ve a lot of debates, confusions and fight the real happiness lies there than being single..