Just because I dont pretend, and backstab people!

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My Mom and sister are the exact same which is probably why I cant stand them. I barely even want to sit in the same room as them let alone even talk to them. They are the type of woman who pretend they like you, backstab you, all for what I dont know. This lady at work my Mom was supposeable friends with, I dont know what happened but my Mom complains and says how much she hates her, and so on. Next thing this lady comes up and asks her something, she puts on this show and pretends to be all buddy buddy with her until she walks away and says oh I cant stand her. On the drive home, I simple said if you dont like her why talk to her (thats what I do Im not going to pretend I like you, not that Ill be a complete biatch but not kiss your royal butt). My Mom turns and goes no wonder you have nothing, and no friends because you dont pretend to like people, and you have nothing in life your going to be like my cousin living at home being single for the rest of her lfe (what does that have to do with me not pretending to kiss someones rear). She goes your sister, is obviously the opposite. I just laughted and said yea just like you nothing to show for theemselves, and cant pay a single bill without a man, cant function in life without depending on a man and clearly have to pretend and backstab people to have *friends*. The fact I can function in life without calling a guy to double check, and not be able to manage a bank account, or even everyday functions. She shut up after I said this, as she knows its right she has nothing for herself, no cars, no house, no belongings. Someone else whether it be my Dad or her parents have boughten those cars, the house, all the belongings, and even bailed her out of the debt she caused herself. She's in her 50s with nothing and I think she regrets that and because Im not following in her useless footsteps shes saying all this stuff, and stealing from me. Yet, my sister who is the exact same as her, and following right in her footsteps is perfect, and she doesnt say a single thing to her, nor steal from her. The fact I get called fat on a daily basis (yet my sister is about 15 - 20 pounds heavier than me), stupid, useless, how that me not having a man means I have nothing in life. Maybe, they need to look at themselves and their useless lives.